Okay guys this is just a vent. But I’ll admit I’m getting kind of weary of grown men on You Tube starting beefs with me on You Tube. They are becoming a major distraction from the work I do, and honestly the ramped up vitriol is both disturbing and scary. You guys, it’s gotten so bad there I’m ready to pack it in. I have never in my life been dogged and harassed by a pack of bullies like this ever in my life, and for what?
For the five years I’ve been blogging, I’ve promoted the following messages:
As a result of these assertions, I’m a currently being bullied relentlessly on You Tube by grown men who should have something better to do with their time. I’m actually in shock at the amount of time and energy they keep putting in to this. What I have seen is beyond the absolute pale.
Is what I preach that revolutionary? The new argument is that my “ideals” are encouraging division in the black community. Really? Because I’m not sending messages FORCING black women to stay within a broken community and break their backs with no reciprocation? Because I’m telling black women LEAVE? Is that the fear? Scared you’ll lose your steady supply of women to perpetuate the 70% single stats, low marriage rates, high divorce rates, rampant abuse, and 73% out of wedlock rate? All these things existed before I came into this arena. But because I’m encouraging black women to throw up deuces, I’m tearing apart the community?? Come on!!! You just want your steady supply of women to run through, demean, debase, abuse, impregnate and dehumanize just so you can feel good about yourself.
I honestly try to put out some much positive energy in hope it will come back, and swimming in the muck on You Tube is having an emotional toll.
The only thing that keeps me going is all the letters, notes, and support I get from people who have discovered me on the forum and have been inspired to take a chance at love that they might have never thought they would or could. Many of these viewers are non-black men, who have had the courage to go for the women they’ve always wanted by were always too guarded to pursue.
And as for the bullies, there’s really nothing I can do. What they say and do falls under free speech, and as long and they’re not making any overt threats, they are free to say whatever they want, lie or truth, or misinformation. Honestly, my true fear comes from the disenfranchised men who watch those channels, who are easily manipulated and have little to lose.
I don’t know if there’s any solution to this, other than folding up my tent and moving on, but I’m not going to do that. Not a chance.
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