Funny Friday: Funny Excuses to Have Kids With No Daddy!

You would not believe or maybe you would LOL. And you're quoting them almost verbatim. Wow...just wow!

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You made a choice that was right for you (having a child you were trying your darndest NOT to have), so yes, you CHOSE to be a single mother. There were other choices available and you made the one you felt was best for yourself--it wasn't like someone held you at gunpoint, handed you a kid and said "See ya".

So you would rather have an abortion? Anyway let's not argue. At least i have the resources to support her:) Ooh and i love her the most

abortion is a personal and medical decision, one many woman make....so let's not moralize the issue. In the words of Dr. Deborah, so what is wrong with abortion when the alternative is worse if not equally stupid....case and point millions of neglected black children in both government system and street corner.

I don't know your life or have a personal stake in your decision-making process, so it doesn't matter what I think, right? :o) You made the decision that was best for YOU and you got a precious child that you are thrilled to take care of and nurture. So it's a win-win for you, correct? But that may not have turned out well for someone else--there are kids out here who are unwanted, neglected, and brought into the world in really less-than-ideal conditions by two people who aren't invested in that child's well-being. For every "well it worked out for me" story, I can tell you 10 flipsides. Some children are not as lucky--that's all I was saying.

@Lolita...I stumbled on this site and thought the exact same thing while reading some of the posts. But what else would you expect from a group that bases their ideas on stereotypes?

fallacy of the general rule

Wow, that's a deep insight, you must have interviewed lots of single mothers to gain that one. I hear that all the time

What really helps put out the fire though, are sites where we are reviled as social and cultural pariahs to our race and to humanity. I personally enjoy the pokin' fun at our vulnerabilities, our stress factors - that's endearing.

huh?

as supposed to what exactly? cajoling and admiring teens and unequipped adult women who keep having children with boys who will not be there for them let along provide child support. Then expect government and individuals to step in and help them do the parenting job they failed @ miserably?

If its considered ' cultural pariah' to fight against the normalization of unwed mothers against all societal norms of having a household where children are born within a marriage or at lease have both parents in their life consistently.......then you have more issue than could be dealt with here.

case and point, here is a video that describes so well the status of black community....in particular the little thug who sexually harassed a disabled girl....and when her father reacted in anger, he was the one punished:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZQZJgDCIY0

The thing is, that's what NWNW is about: informing women that they have other options and opening up dialogues about what those options are. But people are so offended at the idea that having out of wedlock children is not normal, that they're missing the birds for the trees.

I don't presume to speak for Christelyn, but I think this post is a way to show that since people don't see anything wrong with raising kids OOW, then let's show them how crazy they sound. Plus she usually as a Friday Funny post, so this goes along with that.

#3 - Wahahahahahah... LOVE. IT.

He is a billionaire!?! Cool, now if we could just get her away from Tyler Perry....

Except that it's completely true that marriage does not always mean a better parenting situation. It is much better for a child to be in an environment that is supporting and loving than one in which one spouse is abused or there is constant agitation.

I really don't understand this push to marry people. If they don't belong together because they really can't get along, the child is much better off not living in that kind of "family."

No one is pushing people to marry terrible people. What is being pushed is that people do some critical thinking and stop having babies with terrible people. That way you're not stuck with a terrible person for the rest of ur life, whether ur married or not.

Oh, you want guarantees in life? Sorry, wrong planet. Stats have shown, time after time, that kids in two-parent homes are much more stable.

Except that my baby daddy was a nice man or so i thought.

You made a mistake, we all do that however does not excuse you when you make that mistake again and again. Mistakes can be forgiven, we can learn to make better choices. There was probably something in that man you knew was suspicious, but as with most women you ignored because it was exciting to be loved. I don't know your whole story but we all have instincts, we know when things are wrong. I suggest the next time you get that funny feeling, you follow it and not your desperate need to be loved and validated by a man. Maybe then you can use some wisdom and make a better choice in mates.

Look deeper than the surface of stats. I understand what you're saying but the thing isn't just the ring. The ring is a symbol but the deeper issue is simply taking care of your damn kids. Stop making them and dropping them. I want to see the stats on kids born into single households where both parents bothred to stand up and raise them.

I want to see those stats against those of kids of divorce whose parents have multiple families all created in wedlock.

"I laughed at that for a second for its historical absurdity, then I shuddered that some people are actually basing life and parenting decisions on that kind of thinking."

I don't get the joke when the institution of marriage had this as it's foothold for centuries. We still don't mind being passed onto our husbands from our dads and dropping our dad's last name for the new man in your life.

Don't get me wrong, I get how having that person by your side to ride or die for life can be a beautiful thing but I'm all for focusing on the heart of why it is so awesome, not dating someone for a few months and then tolerating them for 50 more years because people are pressuring you to check that off the list of things to do before you turn 30.

It's unfortunately true tho....

I have read a few of these post and believe some of you all is misguided. I am a single mother of four children with four different fathers.First of all let me start off by saying I work full time have a college degree and make enough to not be on any type of assistance. Besides the point I was raped with one of my children and decided to keep him. It was not that I was misguided when I had sexual relationships I am just very fertile. I am too independent to be in a relationship right now as my dreams and aspiration to break cycles has always kept me running from men and not settling down. It was not that I could not been married all three times, but the fact that I was just not ready to put my career on hold to become a wife. I truthfully would rather read a book than be sexual which ruined my relationships. After I tell people I have four children they often make the comment that I chase men. I am a homebody and enjoy it. Hate being approached by men and do not enjoy the club scenes. My single status is merely because I choose to. Marriage for me is a lifetime commitment and is an optimal environment to raise kids in and I support it. Many women lack a even dating pool to choose from as their are a lot of mental disorders called laziness in our society. Our dating pool of men has dwindled due to their interest in prison and death.

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

LMAO, this is really good