Should Celebrities Be Outed After Death?...

I’m watching Killer Inside: The Mind of Aaron Hernandez on Netflix, and at around the 47min and 30 seconds mark Aaron Hernandez is outed as Gay or Bisexual. The now-deceased football star turned convicted murderer’s high school best friend, Denis Sanscoucie, is the one who outed him. Denis told stories of he and Aaron having…

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Eating Disorders Are NOT for Black Girls...

For National Eating Disorder Awareness Week (March 2-8), I wanted to discuss eating disorders as it pertains to black women and girls. Black Women don...

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Not Dating Bisexual Men Does Not Make Black Women Homophobic...

Disclaimer: This post is a long one. If you are going to start frothing at the mouth because you read the title and a few paragraphs, please save your...

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Snoop, Gayle, and why pimping IS easy...

Written by Nicole J. Important Author’s Note: As I’ve referred to before, I’ve been experiencing quite a bit of writing burnout lately. Not writ...

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Sorry; Meghan Markle is Not Your Mule....

It seems that black women are at it again to police black women and their derivatives on how to be good little social justice warriors for “the ...

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2000’s Fashions That are Making a Comeback...

Written by Saran Lawson You may want to hit the gym early because they’re trying to make us wear low riders again. I know what a few people are sayi...

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Doctor Board: Book Interview with Author Adaure Chi...

Adaure Chi reaches out to us in order to promote her book, Doctor Board. She is an OG follower of the blog, and has been reading Christelyn’s conten...

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Black Women: The Article on Love You Need...

Here is the thing, forget media sensationalization and the hype. You are in the game when it comes to love. There is a lot of data out there about lov...

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Make marrying a traditional belief again! -pt.2...

Written by Nicole J. And here I am again, with part two of this post. You can read part one here.   To recap, Kayla Nicole, an 18-year-old intern...

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Make marrying a traditional belief again! pt.1...

Written by Nicole J. Well folks, I’m back, but only for a little while. I have been experiencing some major burnout around the typical topics I writ...

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What is a Single Person to Do on Valentine’s Day?...

Trigger warning: Some people really dislike seeing people who are not black and female featured on the blog. I do hear you and understand your feeling...

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The Case of the Perfect Attendance Pencil...

There is a little girl going viral online. Taylor James, a little elementary school black girl, was speaking to her mother about another child at scho...

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Best Picture: An Oscar-Worthy Kiss...

Note: this post is highlighting a beautiful moment between Brad Pitt and Regina King at the 92nd Academy Awards. We cannot definitively say whether or...

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Would black women survive a zombie apocalypse?...

Written by Nicole   I was a Walking Dead fan for the first few seasons. I dropped off around midway through season 6, since it just felt like the...

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Continuing the Convo: Ari Lennox and Black Features...

Written by Saran Lawson Keeping the conversation going with Ari Lennox’s Instagram rant from a few weeks ago, I have a question. Why are black f...

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Meghan’s Dad: Thomas Markle is Trifiling...

Written By Saran Lawson The Royals are everywhere you click on the internet, and this site is no exception. An article popped up in the notifications ...

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Black Women to Terry Crews: Oh, “Please”...

Written by Nicole J. The latest nonsense to hit social media this week surrounds TV host, failed athlete and Tootsie Roll factory reject, Terry Crews....

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Diony and William: We Get Through It Together, Part 2...

Diony and William share about the ups and downs of their family, and how their relationship has progressed. I hope you enjoy reading their story. &nbs...

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Diony and William: A Second Chance at Love, Part 1...

We have a new love story for you all. I hope you enjoy this new Couple Spotlight with Diony and William.    What are your names? Our names are D...

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A Divested Woman’s Perspective on the Deaths of Kobe and G...

On Sunday, January 26th, Kobe Bryant and his daughter, Gianna, died with 7 others in a helicopter crash on their way to a basketball event. Most peopl...

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Tell me, do YOU work for free?...

Written by Nicole J. I was inspired to write this blog after a rather bizarre yet interesting exchange I saw take place in our comment section. If you...

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Wisdom: The Takeaway From The Evicted Mothers in Oakland...

Background Tuesday, two mothers who had been the subjects of an eviction battle were arrested for obstruction while law enforcement attempted to execu...

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Kym and Nick: Going the Distance, Part 2...

Kym and Nick continue to share their story in this article. You will particularly love their marriage story and how they overcome the challenges in th...

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Kym and Nick: He Saw Her From Afar, Part 1...

Kym was another beautiful lady who responded to my interview request for couples spotlights. I really loved this interview. I hope you enjoy hearing h...

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Author Spotlight: Kesha Ajose Fisher...

I met Kesha through our Beyond Black and White Facebook page. She has written an anthology of stories featuring a variety of African women’s exp...

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Hypergamy and Leveling Up in Everyday Life...

What does hypergamy mean to you? Side Effects May Vary I notice that people have a rather varying views of hypergamy and leveling up. That is absolute...

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Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love! ...

Trigger Warning Before I begin, I will commence this blog with a trigger warning. We briefly mention Gabby’s weight in this post, but that it is not...

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Don’t Worry, Meghan’s Bag is Still Secured...

Written by Nicole J. Warning: Please be advised that there are 2 mentions of the N-word used in this article. It is relevant to the context of the art...

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What are your New Year’s Resolutions?...

Trigger Warning Before I begin, I will commence this blog with a trigger warning. This blog post is not suitable for all audiences. We will be discuss...

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Obesity – The No Go Zone...

Written by Nicole J. In following with this being the season for New Year’s resolutions, this marks my final post about anything to do with obes...

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