Statuesque: My Intuition Steered Me to the Loves i...

I’ve had the privilege of being surrounded by women with strong intuitive and even psychic abilities all my life, and it took a long time to tap int... READ MORE

Coaching: Help a Sister Be Catch the Menz With Fem...

Got this letter from a young girl recently… Dear Christelyn, I love your posts, have read your book and been keeping up with Beyond Black and W... READ MORE

QOTW: White Guy Contemplating Leaving Marriage for...

I got this note earlier today… Hi Cristylen, I’m in a predicament and could use your advice. Im a 34 year old white male fairly fit. Im a ... READ MORE

QOTW: Asian Man Asks, “Why Wouldn’t a ...

I wonder if the organizers of those studies that put Asian men and black women as the most unattractive and undateable knew of the psychological damag... READ MORE

How’s Swirling in the South? BB&W Goes ...

We’ve discussed how interracial relationships, and peoples’ openness (or not) to it often depends on the region in which you live. So I fi... READ MORE

Carrie: Making Love to ‘The Golfer’

  As I lie in a hospice bed awaiting the answer to the extant question, ‘What’s wrong with me?’ I wondered… What really is wrong with me?  ... READ MORE

Video: How to Get Along with the White Women in Yo...

Now before you rev up your fingers for a rebuttal, understand that this video is based on my own individual experiences, but as the saying goes, yours... READ MORE

Leona’s Love Quest: With Every End Comes a New B...

Leona’s Love Quest  With Every End Comes a New Beginning The end of the spring semester is always bittersweet for me. Not only do I have to say goo... READ MORE

Dating Scarcity Perspective Leaves You Vulnerable;...

Last week I was directed to an informal study by Best Black Dating Sites that caused a mini uproar, but thanks to the mainstream black media’s p... READ MORE

Are You Brave Enough to ‘Cut Bait’ In ...

A friend of mine recently shared with me her dissatisfaction with a man whom she’s been seeing. Early in the relationship, he came on strong, fu... READ MORE

Epic Responses to Dumb A** Video Claiming Black Wo...

I got a slew of messages about this video… (First thing, all these couples should go to You Tube because their images are being used, more than ... READ MORE

Continued Victory…Our Voice is Being Heard W...

Got this letter from a man in Quebec. It’s amazing how our platform is reaching so far and wide…and we’re virtually the counter bala... READ MORE

QOTW: Texting Vs. Face to Face Contact…Which...

Got this note from a real cutie…I’m going to put his photo up here. Poor Bambi tho…deer looking like, “Why?! WHYYYYY??????... READ MORE

QOTW: IR Dating Black Woman Hates Seeing Black Men...

The question: I just recently signed up for your email subscription. I get so excited when an email pops up from you. I enjoy reading the questions an... READ MORE