Abiola Abrams on…Da Da Dunnnnn! Pleasuring Yourself. O_o

Abiola Abrams on…Da Da Dunnnnn! Pleasuring Yourself. O_o

Hey Eugenia! Get in here!!!

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Eugenia, sounds like you and Abiola are on the same page on this! ;-)

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SirLoinDeBeef 553 pts

Personally this is my favorite use for AA batteries: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5bxowl5uT94

LovingMyself 193 pts

Can I just say that these discussions are giving me the confidence to enter a sex shop and visit the sex/erotica museum.... Oh là là!

eugeniamitchell 3482 pts moderator

LovingMyself Well with your name your screen name you're halfway there LOL J/K. Dont forget you can explore online places like Babeland run by women and it has reviews and Adam and Eve give you lots of hours of interesting exploration.

LovingMyself 193 pts

eugeniamitchell Lol. Thanks for the tips. My eyes bugged out, but in a good way :-) Hmmm, the possibilities.

Pearl 2249 pts

So umm.. Is it weird that my mom talks to me about this stuff? Would you talk to your kids about this??

TJD 290 pts

Pearl No, it isn't. Yes, I will tell my girls because I want them to view sex as beautiful in the proper context and not secret or dirty. I think that if more parents talked to their children, then we would have fewer sexually irresponsible people in the world

ashwaba 12 pts

Pearl I wish my mom would talk to me about stuff like this. I had to wait until I got to college to figure all this stuff out.

Jay from Philly 665 pts

Women lovingly pleasures themselves nude in a lacy boudoir while romantic music plays in the background. Men (adolescent boys) are stuck in the bathroom with a copy of Penthouse Forum.

Brenda55 4316 pts moderator

Jay from Philly Man there is sort of a longing quality to this post. Doesn't have to be that way Jay just walk in the other room and watch.

Mocha Z 1787 pts

Brenda55 jay from Philly Oh boy....I laughed out loud on this Brenda! Boys are allowed to do the same as girls, right? You have to admit, we do do it better, lol!

glamdoll 496 pts

I tried to find the Terra Fossil wine, but I can't find it here in the Midwest. Anyone ever tried it?

My bf luvs old school music (he has a crazy collection) but I don't think he has this.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=65EoK4OelZU

(Boz Skaggs - Lowdown)

I'm going to look for his cd when I go out today to look for the Terra Fossil wine.

ForestElfQueen 2112 pts

glamdoll good one!

this is funny... 'not totally sure how i feel about it. LOL! think i prefer the original. haha

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Igkyajvrm-8

song starts about 2:07

glamdoll 496 pts

ForestElfQueen

Not as good as Boz...but I like live bands. I always wanted to be in one, my sis in law was a lead singer in a band. I love to dance, so I'm the one rocking on the dance floor;-)

Law Wanxi 3262 pts

Home Depot loss leads Duracells.

A 36-pack of AA's is about half the price of a supermarket, and generally priced lower than Costco.

eugeniamitchell 3482 pts moderator

Law Wanxi Yea you can never have enough batteries, the worse is when you need them and can't find that is not good, not at all. LOL.

Karla 2799 pts

eugeniamitchellTruer words were never spoken. Trust me, been there.

Brenda55 4316 pts moderator

http://www.markgibsonphoto.com/images/N046W03W.JPG

.....and you can watch the scenery change while your at it.

Karla 2799 pts

I love it! I am the vibe supplier for most of my friends. Some react with horror but once we talk and they try it, they're hooked and wonder why no one ever told them. In fact, I just gave my White GF a nice one for Christmas. She told me, in a fit of rash honesty, that she had never used one and was afraid of what her husband would think. Yesterday, she called me and thanked me profusely. Thankfully, her husband was very receptive to including it in their bedwork. It would be nice if toys were included in the Kotex box when girls learn the "facts of life". It sure would have made it easier and much more fun to swallow. "Yes, you're going to have your period at some point but you also have the ability to pleasure yourself too." Girls would probably be much happier and less full of hormonal angst.

hclark 81 pts

Hi five Abiola! I'm so glad that you have put it out there for the ladies to see and learn. I learned to take charge of what I like and how I like it. I know what works for me and am not ashamed to teach it to that special someone. It's great that we have this avenue because everyone isn't comfortable. Like I said before I bought my Mom and my little sister one to broaden their horizon so to speak . In my inner circle with my girls we make recommendations on what's hot and what's not and why. Lol! TMI? I think not .. Good for you and good for the ladies.

Mocha Z 1787 pts

I love that bw are working on the "pleasures of life", lol. Knowing our bodies and minds will lead to much more rewarding experiences.

I just wonder why bw have had the hang ups as a whole? We are as passionate, if not more than any other people group. Yet, somehow as as a group, we are considered and maybe are the most conservative in the use of "marital aids" 'toys" etc.

Maybe there's a fear of the partner wanting to go too far with it?

eugeniamitchell 3482 pts moderator

Mocha Z BW are told and many women are told at so many avenues that sex is bad and that masturbation is terrible. I'm a Christian but I know that God meant sex to be pleasurable, that's what Song of Solomon is all about. If anyone's ever read it because I have it's short but beautiful and very erotic we'd know that. But women aren't told that and by the time many reach the age of maturity they're too embarrassed, uncomfortable or guilt ridden about their bodies to try.

Mocha Z 1787 pts

eugeniamitchell

Yup...Song of Solomon is Hawt! Lol...it really is!

glamdoll 496 pts

I really like Abiola! She's right...the real fun began once I learned how to self pleasure;-)...now I know exactly how to communicate to my partner what works for me.

Toni_M 4710 pts

Oh, and definitely in agreement with her point. We're way past the point of "lie on your back and think of England".

Mocha Z 1787 pts

Toni_M "lie on your back and think of England"

Lol!

Toni_M 4710 pts

The legendary Hello, Kitty vibrator. LOL, I couldn't. I love Hello, Kitty (more than I should admit) but I'd want her nowhere near my vagina.

That corset case is very cute.

eugeniamitchell 3482 pts moderator

I concur completely and I will be passing on to others. I'm giving you a standing ovation Abiola! This news to spread to bw everywhere! I love the notion of the 'bombshell next door'. Abiola is my kind of woman, she's dropping knowledge here. Also although I really don't like red wine, I do love a good Malbec so I'll be trying this Terra Fossil Malbec.

abiolatv 9 pts

eugeniamitchell Thank you, Eugenia!! Yay. And I know that it may sound corny, but I always say that the most sensual and romantic thing that a couple can read to each other is... The Song of Solomon! ;-)

eugeniamitchell 3482 pts moderator

abiolatv You're welcome Abiola I am loving your contributions to this blog. And yes Song of Solomon is sensual that's not corny at all. When my brother and sister in law got married a few years ago, my mom asked that I read a scripture for the wedding, ppl usually do the 'love is patient love is kind' one but I went out of the box and used Song of Solomon, it was beautiful.