Letter: What One White Man Says is the Difference Between Bl...

Received this letter last week, and knew I had to share and make some commentary. Christelyn, I’ve been dating Black women since my separation from my now ex-wife. I fell into it accidentally but after a couple of happy experiences, I began to only date Black women. When I’d mention that to others inevitably the…

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So…What Do Black Men REALLY Think About Black Women Da...

I know some of the fans here are probably saying, “Who cares?” You may not, but I guarantee you that there are many, many, MANY black wome...

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Carrie: Swirling When Your White Boy Ain’t Woke...

We still hadn’t met yet, but this was the first night we spoke, aside from our cordial, yet topical email correspondence. His name was *Bryan, a Seg...

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Better Ways to Manage Your Weight...

Some people it, seems, have a gift of eating anything they want without it showing up as fat pockets in all the wrong places on their body. While othe...

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Gorgeous Eternity Calvin Klein Features Jake Gyllenhaa as Do...

Remember, like we always say…these marketers aren’t doing this out of the kindness of their hearts. Jake Gyllenhaa is just the most adorab...

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Lupita N’Yongo Had Twice The Reasons to Keep Quiet Abo...

Yesterday Lupita N’yongo broke her silence about her experience with sexual predator, Harvey Weinstein. In her OpEd in the New York Times, she w...

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Carrie: “As a black woman, when am I allowed to give u...

I am bitter. Desperate too. Jaded. Did I miss anything? In today’s meme-generating society, few emotions are permitted, while others are outlawed. A...

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Proof: The Rise of Online Dating = The Rise of Interracial M...

How many times have I said that, although there hasn’t been a study, I bet that the rise in online dating correlates with the rise of interracia...

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Proof Black Media is Responsible for Manipulating Us with #B...

Since 2010, my critics–many of them in so-called “black media–have argued that a site like Beyond Black & White don’t need...

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TONIGHT!! Straight-Shooting Tiffany Jolene Speaks to BB&...

It is with great pleasure to announce that Tiffany Jolene, the viral blogger who wrote a missive to dusty black men who crawl up into her inbox to bas...

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Five Reasons Dating Guys On Bumble is a Bad Idea...

I’ve recently had to reevaluate my position about Tinder, because despite it being a notorious hookup site, there have been some success stories...

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Interview: Kola Boof Talks New Comic Book Project Featuring ...

Have you heard that living legend, Kola Boof is taking on the world of comic books? Check out this interview: Interview with Kola Boof by Adrienne Gra...

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Farewell to ‘Chef Bob’...

It is with a heavy heart I have to inform the Beyond Black & White family that much-loved member, Bob Wendorf (aka ‘Chef Bob’) passed ...

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QOTW: “I’ve Been With My Boyfriend 9 Years with ...

A woman asked the women in our Dating Darwinism Facebook private group. Nine years of dating with no wedding proposal means one thing–he’s...

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Kendall St. Charles: “Black Women Demand MORE of White...

A very interesting conversation came to pass when I created this meme and distributed throughout our social media pages. There were a few quotes that ...

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LIVE Show Tonight…HOT TOPICS!...

Tonight begins our (semi) weekly LIVE hangout combo on YouTube and Blog Talk Radio. We’re talking about this week’s news, women who waste ...

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Four Things Black Women are Terrified with Online Dating...

https://youtu.be/RsC5yXkSDXc Got any more to add? If you’re a MAN, and want to sign up for our private mailing list we mention in this video, cl...

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At Last! A Travel Retreat Just for Interracial Couples!! ?...

How many years have we talked about, wished, dreamed, and desired a travel event tailored to folks in interracial relationships? I ecstatic to announc...

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What It’s Like to Survive a Hurricane...

Written by James Bagget, a member of our community. After reading this you may want to checkout his campaign to help the island community. https://www...

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Meghan Markle: We’ve Come a Long Way Since “Imit...

So many fans have sent me photos of biracial actress, Meghan Markle and Prince Harry, who have now become completely open about their romantic relatio...

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What I Means When a Guy You Just Met Sends You Porn....

It happens more than you think, and there’s a reason why some men do this. https://youtu.be/8hHcif6NdUI When a guys sends you porn or inappropri...

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It’s Natural, It’s Black Owned, and I LOVE It!...

I’m a seriously naturalista as most of you know, and I’m not shy about sharing my favorites with all of you. While the natural cosmetics i...

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Forget the ‘Tragic Mulatto,’ This Reddit Thread ...

As a blogger in the interracial marriage space, I’ve heard all sorts of rumors about other cultures and races here in America, with all sorts of...

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More Hair Vitamins that Work: Nature’s Bounty Hair, Sk...

I’ve previously been a buyer and reviewer of several (high) priced hair, skin and nail vitamins in the past, and while those did have some benef...

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SJW Masochism: Who Would Sacrifice Their Interracial Relatio...

I received a desperate note from a fan on our Facebook fan page, on the heels of the embarrassing Black Love interview with a woman who proclaimed all...

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Attention Young Ladies…Things I Wish I’d Done to...

I recently received a question from a 21-year-old girl who goes to a predominately white college that on it’s surface, doesn’t present man...

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BlackLove: The Psychology of a Swirling Apologist...

Someone sent me a clip from the new series, Black Love, on the Oprah Winfrey Network. I did an analysis of the interviewee, Ashley. She’s what I...

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I Got a Real, Live Chance to Talk to My 13 Year Old Self. Ki...

In the wee hours of the morning, when I won’t up for no explicable reason after dreaming about a relative chiding me about massive fines for lea...

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Melania Trump: A Cautionary Tale of Hegemony...

As if we didn’t need more proof of Melania’s distaste for husband, we now have this… I noticed a lot of social media posts about how...

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Anti Swirlers, Please STOP Sending Me Fake News!...

I recently got not one, but TWO emails from a hysterical woman… How sad is this???? Watch “BEAUTIFUL WOMAN HATES MOM BECAUSE SHE BLACK. SH...

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