When Your Mother Doesn’t Make You Feel Like Celebratin...

It’s 1:41 AM, the early hours of Mother’s Day. While I should be excited about getting breakfast in bed and a day free of chores, I’m dreading the next few hours, because my mother has been blowing up both phones to lobby that I drag my family up the two hours it takes to get…

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Battle of the Baby Bumps: Who’s Doing it Better, Janet...

Of course you knew we were going to report on news that Janet Jackson and Blak China are preggers with their respective partners. Janet, who is two we...

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Color U Bold: A Festival Glam Makeup Tutorial!...

  Today I wanted to share with you a fun and creative makeup tutorial especially if you are feeling like going bold for a day! This makeup look c...

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Ladies When You Enable Foolishness, It IS Your Fault....

Black women have had no shortage of outlets to discuss, hand-wring, and debate how and why black men have not, for some reason or another, failed a co...

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Jack McCain Is an Example of How Powerful Men Come to Defend...

As the Old Navy ad saga continues, we’re seeing families of all combinations in support of the company, who has savvily capitalized on the risin...

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QOTW: “My Mother Thinks White Parents Won’t Like...

Good Morning Christelyn! My name is Jatrice (like Patrice, but with a J), and I’m 24 from Arkansas. I’ve been a subscriber for about two y...

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Donald Trump Presidency Bid Supported by Klu Klux Klan...

Essence, Ebony and Snopes reported today that a man identified as the Imperial Wizard of the Rebel Brigade Knights of the Klu Klux Klan has officially...

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My Sexy Mother’s Day Look Featuring Mineral Fusion...

Just in time for Mother’s Day, I picked up a few items of one of my favorite natural makeup brands, Mineral Fusion (who by the way, just became ...

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Springtime in the Garden: Root Veggies with Fresh Herbs + Ho...

I planted these carrots, white and red beets and onions last fall, and boy…it took forever for them to grow during the short days of winter! But...

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Why Racists Who Hate the Old Navy Ad are Totally Irrelevant...

Old Navy, like many family-oriented companies in America, are reaching out to consumers that no longer look only like this…     And lo...

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Black Women Mocked at Wesley College by…a Black Man....

Much uproar and cries of racism were launched at the administration at Wesley College when the following cartoons appeared in the school newspaper: Cl...

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QOTW: “Is the White Guy I’m Seeing Abusive?̶...

The question: My name is Rose (not my real name) and I would appreciate your advice on a relationship I’m currently in. I’m a fairly new s...

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Meet Robin Williams, the Funky Chic from Bowtie Behavior...

If Robin Williams, the brain behind the “blerdy” Bowtie Behavior, looks familiar, then you must have seen her in a Wix commercial. That...

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The List of Things Under $40 I’d Want If I Was Your Mo...

Mother’s Day is May 8. Don’t you want to give the mom in your life something that you didn’t put more than five minutes of thought i...

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Video: What My Extended Family Thinks About “Swirling&...

This weekend I met up with some of my family in Laguna Hills, California. After a few drinks, there’s no telling what we’ll all say.  ...

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What the Iconic Photo of Harriet Tubman Reveals About Black ...

So Harriet Tubman, the iconic slave woman who ushered her brethren to freedom via the Underground Railroad, will grace the $20 bill in American curren...

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Lil Kim Metamorphosis Into a White Women is Beyond Disturbin...

  The person you see above used to look like this… It’s would be an understatement to say the changes of this extremely talented wrap...

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Color U Bold: Five Tips for Flawless Skin...

We all dream of having a flawless face but let’s be honest no one has perfect skin. I have been told plenty of times I have a flawless face but litt...

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Friday Hangout: 7PM PST tonight: Teaching and keeping standa...

Join us this evening, 7PM PST for a Friday hangout. where we will discuss what we and our daughters/sons should expect. The recent prom proposal busin...

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The Prince Appreciation Thread: What Do You Remember?...

So…Prince died today. I can hardly believe it, and took it even harder than when I found out Michael and Whitney passed. I guess because Prince ...

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Disturbing Trend In Prom Proposals: Kool-aid and Watermelon&...

I’ve noticed a rather disturbing trend with high-school kids and prom proposals–white guys asking black girls to the prom with posters ref...

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My 100% Pure Haircare Stash Is Getting a Little Cray…...

Anybody who’s read this blog long enough knows I’m a product junkie…like…it’s a real problem. In my defense, I long buy ...

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MGTOW: The New Outlets for Bitter Males to Bash Black Women...

This blog post isn’t necessarily about MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way). It’s about some of the members, who circle around the periphery of...

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Aisha Tyler Breaks Down on “The Talk” About Her ...

By now you might have heard that The Talk co-host, Aisha Tyler is breaking up from Jeff Tietjens, her husband of over 20 years. She wanted to do the d...

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QOTW: “Am I Racist Because I DON’T Want a Black ...

Sometimes I get the most absurd questions… Thanks for the great videos…very educational 🙂 I have a question. As a white male from the S...

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Interpret This Comment (If You Dare)...

Got this comment off a You Tube video I did. Take a look. And that, in a nutshell, is why I get trolled so hard....

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The South Strikes Again: Security Guard Says He Was Fired fo...

John Smelser, Knox Count Schools security officer. (KNOX COUNTY SCHOOLS) Recently we heard about a Mississippi couple evictedfrom their trailer home b...

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Join us at 7PM PST for Google Hangout...

Hangout Tonight: Subject “Are Black Women Unredeemable?” We’re talking Future and Ciara, Blac China and the Kardashians, and how som...

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Open Thread: Random Randomness...

It’s been a while since we’ve unleashed one of these! OT away, mattys!...

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TriniGirl Gives the Most Inspiring Wedding Looks!...

Check out this video just in time for wedding season, composed by our very own TriniGirl, who runs a wedding photography business with her husband. Gl...

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