QOTW: Black Woman Interested in White Guy with Black Friend ...

The question: Hello Christelyn,   I admire you for your work counseling black women and interracial couples! Thank you for your strength and passion! I thought I should write to ask your opinion on my situation.   I am a 25-year-old single black woman. I’d like to think that I’m beautiful, smart, articulate, and well…

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How to Make Your Natural Hair Grow...

If you are a Black Woman you know the struggles of having short natural hair that just will not grow! I have struggled with short hair for the long...

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Time to Get Real About Protecting Black Women from HIV and O...

Last week when I did a video about a fan of mine who’s bestie was a gay male with HIV practicing unsafe sex practices, we got a troll from the u...

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Garden Update: Companion Planting, 4 Foot Tall Tomatoes, and...

This year I decided to do something new in the garden. I planted corn earlier in the season in a large, circular, felt garden bag. Corn needs lots of ...

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Exclusive: Kola Boof Reacts to Azealia Banks’ Skin Ble...

It truly is ironic that the MOST VOCAL opponent of Skin-Bleaching on earth (Kola Boof), author of the literal bible against bleaching “THE SEXY ...

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Time to Start a Prayer Chain for Azalea Banks. She’s B...

Honestly it breaks my heart that this woman’s tortured mental state is on full display for all the world to see. Now it looks like Azalea Banks ...

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Asian Man Gives His Perspective On Dating Black Women...

Hi Christelyn,   I hope this message finds you well.  My name is Tim and I recently saw a Youtube video you had posted wherein you interviewed ...

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Smooth, Pore-Less Looking Skin, Naturally!...

  June is National Acne Awareness Month. I remember when acne had such a hold on me that it affected my confidence. It even affected the types of...

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Happy #LovingDay! Check Me Out at the #MixedRemixedFestival!...

Yesterday’s Mixed Remixed Festival a blast. Got to meet so many gorgeous and beautifully blended families. I spoke to a packed room of people di...

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QOTW: “My HIV Positive Best Friend Keeps Having Risky ...

The Question: “I have been having an issue that I can’t seem to figure out a solution for even though it should be common sense for a pers...

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Love It! Gorgeous Couple Ties the Knot!...

On the eve of Loving Day. Check out the love story of Leah De Shay and her husband, Thomas Drexler: My name is Leah De Shay; my husband Thomas Friedri...

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OMG…Summer Floaties on FLEEK!!!...

My brother and his wife and son came down for Maxi’s graduation and we were in the thick of a heat wave. Good lawd…all we could do was be ...

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Breukelen Bleu Gives Insight into the Dark Side of Femininit...

    You’re heard the lighter, flowery side of the feminine power we can access, now get ready for the darker side. https://www.youtube...

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Dear Natural Cosmetics Companies, Please Acknowledge That Da...

Dear Natural Cosmetics Companies Who Think Only White Women Want to Buy Their Wares, For a variety of reasons related to concerns about my health and ...

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21, Pregnant with Second Child, Wants to Swirl?!...

This letter appeared in my inbox: Hi, I’m a 21 year old black female who swirled once when I was in high school and became pregnant by the white...

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Decadent Chocolate Therapy That Won’t Grow Your Waistl...

Maxi’s graduation weekend was wonderful, but there was some senseless family drama on Friday that left me mentally and emotionally exhausted. I ...

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Alicia Keys Vows To Never Wear Makeup. Are You Feeling It?...

Yes, ya’ll. Alicia Keys has seen the light! After much introspection and meditation, Keys has decided that she will no longer wear makeup. You k...

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How to Watch “Roots” with Your White Partner wit...

I remember when the first installment of Roots came out, and my parents demanding my brother and I watch. I remember seeing that classic scene, when K...

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Don’t Miss Out on this Amazing Deal! 20% Off 100% Pure...

If you’ve been contemplating transitioning to natural, chemical free and non-toxic make up and skin care, 100% Pure Cosmetics is an excellent co...

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She Makes Me Proud! Maxi Graduates!...

Got to be braggadocios for a minute, because I simply am bursting with happiness that my oldest daughter graduated high school today. Now it’s o...

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Flummoxed for Father’s Day? How About a Boudoir Photo?...

You’ve given the tie and dress shirt, the fancy Williams Sonoma grill set, and the socks and underwear. Aren’t you tired of seeing that bo...

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South African Woman Gives Us a Peek on Cultural Double Stand...

It’s always nice to get another perspective. Hi Christelyn, I’m a 23 year old black woman from South Africa and I love your work. I’...

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QOTW: BW Upset Because Her White Female Friends Puzzle Over ...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_1xunrd79g Okay fam, what say you?...

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Join Me for the #LovingDay Mixed Remixed Festival in Los Ang...

Hi everyone! I’m so proud to announce that I’ll be a panel discussion speaker at the Mixed/Remixed Festival in celebration of Loving Day, ...

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Get Mad if You Want…Femininity for the Win....

After a frequent commenter, Breanna, posted a candid status on Facebook about her frustration about living in an unsafe neighborhood, and the dangers ...

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For Black Women Only: What Femininity Is…For Us....

I got this question from a reader this morning: Hello! Thank you so much for all you do! I just read your piece on what happened to Breanna. ? That is...

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Cantu Can-Do! Check Out the New Cantu Shea Butter Lineup...

We love Cantu Shea Butter Products around these parts. It’s one of the few affordable drug-store brand hair care products that don’t cont...

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Black Women, It’s Time to START Practicing Hypergamy. ...

**WARNING: DON’T READ THIS ARTICLE IF YOU BELIEVE IN FEMINIST IDEALS TO THE POINT OF JEOPARDIZING YOUR OWN WELL-BEING. NO FOOT-SHOOTERS ALLOWED....

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Video: The Top Three Challenges Black Women Face Dating...

A woman just leaving a 23-year relationship ask me this question, and I’m glad she did. It gave me a chance to organize and categorize the issue...

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“I Felt Something Inside Me Go Numb.” How Media ...

If there was ever any doubt that the message drilled into young impressionable black women about how we’re the most undesirable, undatable, and ...

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