Thriving

QOTW: “I’m 38, and Tired of Waiting fo...

The question: I was nervous to write to you at first. I believed all that I was raised with about finding my IBM, that I am not supposed to date outsi...
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Sigh…The World Knows How Foolish Some Black ...

I have preached, teached, and nagged for black women of all ages to embrace this…   Now before you watch the following video, I want you to...
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KTVU Anchor Calls Out Racist Who Was Upset with th...

We’ve seen this photo all over, and was shared by a legion of people. It was overwhelmingly positive, but one (ostensibly) black man took issue....
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Why the “Fetishizing” Argument is Such...

It has to be said. The whole concept of the mass hysteria of black female “fetishization” is a psychological tactic that is being used to ...
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So Tired of Women Who Look Like This Thinking They...

Got this note for a beautiful young lady who REALLY needs our group’s help. Here’s what she wrote:   Hello , christelyn I currently s...
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Maxi (Temporarily) Makes Me a Grandmother!!

‘Maxi’ recently had to take home a robot baby that cries, needs a bottle, needs to be burped, and cries some more. Take a look at how she ...
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Speak On It: Do Men Really Not Care If Significant...

Statistics reflect that black women have the highest enrollment in American universities than any other race and gender, according to the  National ...
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Shine for Those Who Defend Our Honor Example #2

Hat’s off to Daniel Johnson, scribe for the Huffington Post who penned, Dear Black Men, You Are Not Pro-Black If You Are Not Pro Black Women w...
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Take a Lesson on How White Women Deal with Men Who...

There’s been an interesting bit of drama happening with two men–Jared Rutledge and Jacob Owens of Asheville, North Carolina — owners of ...
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Shines for Those Who Defend Out Honor, Example#1

I’m going to start a series highlighting men and women of all races and creeds who are making efforts to stand up for the honor of black women. ...
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In Order for Black Women to Mobilize, We Must Firs...

To pick up where I left off with the horrid screed by T.C. Writer, I Hate Black Women, I feel the need to put things into perspective so that we are ...
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Reflections of the OJ Simpson Trial and My Evoluti...

When I reflect on my feelings about when OJ Simpson was charged with the murders of Nicole Brown and Ronald Goldman, I feel ashamed. I remember the tr...
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“Ericatheoddity” Speaks:”Christe...

I’ve been having my eye on this young woman for a while now, and her commentary is epic. She is so smart, and totally gets it. Yesterday she mad...
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The Bullying Continues, and Now You Tube Bullies H...

Sigh. Okay guys this is just a vent. But I’ll admit I’m getting kind of weary of grown men on You Tube starting beefs with me on You Tube....
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