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Toni: “Don’t Judge” = “Hel...

Any Twilight Zone fans out there? “Neither sympathy nor compassion can be handed out wholesale like cheap bubblegum.” This is a quote from...
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Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen&...

Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen” Black Men, Hello, how are things? Is the new year off to a good start? I hope so. 🙂 I see ...
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Former Bachelorette, Misee Harris Dives Head First...

Remember the short-lived stint of bachelorette, Misee Harris? If not, that’s okay, because she’s giving America another chance to recogniz...
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Black Father Gets Racist Hate Mail & Goes Vira...

This story has appeared several times in my Facebook feed. Apparently Black fathers can’t do anything right when it comes to their kids. I don&#...
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QOTW: White Man Asks, “What Is Black Culture...

I can hear some of you rolling your eyes. Okay, I might answer this question myself pretty well, but most non-Black people, and apparently the “...
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Some Good News: Study Shows that Black Fathers Mor...

Okay here’s some really good news. A fairly large study was recently reported showing that black fathers who live in the home with their childre...
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Praise Jesus! Black Women Leaving the Church for S...

I ran across news of the book, “The Ebony Exodus Project: Why Some Black Women Are Walking out on Religion—and Others Should Too” in on...
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You Can’t Blame the Police and Racism for Th...

I have always, ALWAYS been for the kids, ya’ll. And I just discovered a video of a child…A BABY IN DIAPERS being called a “bitch ass...
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The Best Interracial Dating Resources for Black Wo...

It’s a new year and with it, perhaps new incentive to finally pursue what you want! While many people still believe interracial relationships are so...
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I Don’t Hate Myself, I Just Hate Ratchetry.

As you might imagine, I get a lot of people accusing me of hating myself because of the nature of my work. Somehow, telling black women they are beaut...
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What is Wrong with the Black Man? (Written by a Bl...

Someone posted a quote from this citation on my You Tube channel and could hardly believe it was written by a Nigerian man. I’m reposting it, kn...
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Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”...

  Dear “Nothing But A Brother” and “I Don’t Date White Guys” black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season a...
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“If Black Men See Us With White Men, It Will...

I don’t know how many ways it can be said that in this life you are free to choose and love whoever you wish. Or that spaces like this featuring...
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Okay, then. So Let’s Talk About Black Women ...

I was thinking since we were talking about the word “desperate” being thrown around, why not bring it around to another word that certain ...
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