Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate?

This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The"Swirling" book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to seek love … [Read more...]


Why Are Sisters at the Ivy Leagues Still Caught Up in the Matrix?

It's the ultimate irony when a black woman feels empowered to reach the highest echelons of academia yet feels so powerless when it comes to dating … [Read more...]

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“Hump Day” Special: Kelly Slater Might Cause You to Get Wet

Hmmpf.......... You see what I did right there? I may have outdone myself this time. You might have thought I was trying to imply something else!? Get … [Read more...]


New Study Confirms the Online is the Best Way to Date Interracially.

One of the chief fears I hear from people curious about interracial dating is that is rejection. Non-black men, who've probably heard from one loud … [Read more...]

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Man Candy Monday: Colin Kaepernick Can Tackle Me Anyday of the Week

They say you a girl looks for the type of man that reminds her of her father. Well, my father Big Jessie was, big, standing at 6'2 so tall men have … [Read more...]

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Man Candy Monday: Danell Leyva’s Naked Body Is Good for Us All

There is something about a man's body that I just can't deny. The lines of his shoulders, the width of his waist, the way his calf muscles flex as he … [Read more...]

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Man Candy Monday: Who Said Indian Men Ain’t Sexy? Upen Patel Sure Is!!

Okay, to show you all just how shallow one needs to be in order to identify, process and discard men, I give you Exhibit A. Upen Patel is a hot, … [Read more...]


Man Candy Monday (Walking Dead Edition): Norman Reedus

This just in...the subject of today's Man Candy Monday, Norman Reedus, is a resident of New York City and can be often found grabbing a cuppa coffee … [Read more...]

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Man Candy Monday: Byung-Hun Lee

I was hooked the moment I first saw Bruce Lee as a wee babe. Since that time Asian men have secretly been on my internal male objectification radar. … [Read more...]


A Black First Lady For Virginia — Why Not?

Robert and Astrid Sarvis pictured with son Harlan live in Annandale, VA.   Astrid Sarvis could possibly be Virginia's next first lady.  Does … [Read more...]


Getting Familiar with His Familia: Meeting His Family For the First Time

The word family can either cause the average person to break out in a huge smile while feeling those warm and tingly reminders of all things safe and … [Read more...]

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Jaded Hearts: A Well Written Interracial Love Story

‘Jaded Hearts’, volume one of The Jaded Hearts Club series, does away with the stereotypical billionaire and melting heroine, instead opting for a … [Read more...]

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Video: Asian Men and Black Women Give Advice on How to Date Each Other

I got a chance to meet up with one of the largest AM/BW groups (500 strong) while on my trip to New York last month. What was said was candid and … [Read more...]