Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”: An Open Letter


  Dear "Nothing But A Brother" and "I Don't Date White Guys" black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season all you'd hope it would … [Read more...]

“If Black Men See Us With White Men, It Will Scare Them Away!” O_o


I don't know how many ways it can be said that in this life you are free to choose and love whoever you wish. Or that spaces like this featuring women … [Read more...]

Okay, then. So Let’s Talk About Black Women And Our “Hate”

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I was thinking since we were talking about the word "desperate" being thrown around, why not bring it around to another word that certain people like … [Read more...]

Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate?


This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The"Swirling" book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to seek love … [Read more...]

Why Are Sisters at the Ivy Leagues Still Caught Up in the Matrix?


It's the ultimate irony when a black woman feels empowered to reach the highest echelons of academia yet feels so powerless when it comes to dating … [Read more...]

“Hump Day” Special: Kelly Slater Might Cause You to Get Wet

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Hmmpf.......... You see what I did right there? I may have outdone myself this time. You might have thought I was trying to imply something else!? Get … [Read more...]

New Study Confirms the Online is the Best Way to Date Interracially.


One of the chief fears I hear from people curious about interracial dating is that is rejection. Non-black men, who've probably heard from one loud … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: Colin Kaepernick Can Tackle Me Anyday of the Week

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They say you a girl looks for the type of man that reminds her of her father. Well, my father Big Jessie was, big, standing at 6'2 so tall men have … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: Danell Leyva’s Naked Body Is Good for Us All

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There is something about a man's body that I just can't deny. The lines of his shoulders, the width of his waist, the way his calf muscles flex as he … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: Who Said Indian Men Ain’t Sexy? Upen Patel Sure Is!!

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Okay, to show you all just how shallow one needs to be in order to identify, process and discard men, I give you Exhibit A. Upen Patel is a hot, … [Read more...]