S. Helena and Naveen, It was Fate...
I had the opportunity to interview S. Helena on her three-year marriage with Naveen. Some of you may remember her from one of Christelyn’s in-depth video series, The Pros and Cons of Dating Asian Men. She graciously agreed to be featured in an article and has even suggested future subjects for article features. Thank you…
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For Father’s Day: A Tale of Two Patriarchs...
Written by Nicole J. Two famous men died recently, from similar illnesses, at similar ages, both in California hospitals, and I couldn’t help but no...
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8 Ways Black Fathers Fail Their Children...
Written by Nicole J. For many black people, Father’s Day is a tough day to deal with. Whether their father was absent their whole life, or was prese...
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Dear Black Women: Don’t be the face of uprising...
Written by Nicole J. Alaa Salah, 22, from Sudan, was photographed by Lana Haroun earlier this year in protest of Sudanese president Omar al-Bashir’s...
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Pink Pill Spotlight: Naomi’s Take, Part 2...
In this interview, we will be continuing our first Pink Pill Spotlight. We will explore tips and tricks while on the date. Many thanks to Naomi for su...
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Loving Day Appreciation Thread!...
It’s that time again, where we reflect on the two people, Richard and Mildred Loving, who made it possible for American black women (and the res...
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Pink Pill for College Girls: Your Degree CAN Keep You Warm!...
Written by Nicole J. In the dating world, a fairly common question black women get asked is “what do you bring to the table?”, often by men who ha...
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Pink Pill Spotlight: Meet Naomi...
In this interview, we will be conducting our first Pink Pill Spotlight. While recent interviews have featured women, who are married or dating, this i...
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Colorism: Are We Overplaying It?...
Before I get into the meat of this blog, let me address a few things: Do I believe colorism is real? Yes. Do I believe colorism is a problem in the Bl...
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You Can Have That “Strong Black Woman” Trope, I&...
Written by Nicole J. My most recent article, discussing my thoughts on Karine Jean-Pierre jumping to the defense of inadequately secured Senator Kamal...
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A Discussion on the Modern Interracial Community: Do We Need...
Written by Saran Lawson I was a part of a discussion on modern interracial dating. The discussion touched on groups created online such as Facebook as...
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Wakanda Ain’t Real And You’re Not in the Dora Milaje!: A...
Written by Nicole J. As black women navigating life, we have to cope with a lot of negative stereotypes that make our journey to greatness a little mo...
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Attraction or Self Hate?...
Written by Saran Lawson This subject is a little sensitive in the Interracial Dating community. So, I’m going to handle it as delicately as I can. I...
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Pink Pill for College Girls: Career Leveling Up Techniques...
Written by Nicole J. 2019 has been the year of the level up. Relationships, finances, choices, you name it, ladies everywhere are committing themselve...
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Lessons to learn from Rohan Marley’s recent nuptials...
Written by Nicole J. Rohan Marley, son of the legendary Bob Marley, got married to his Brazilian bride Barbara Fialho, back in March. And like anythin...
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How can I get back in the dating game after a 20-year marria...
I ran across your post and decided to ask a few questions. My 45th birthday is coming up and I wanted to start dating again. I have been divorced for ...
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Tiffany Haddish: Met Gala Missteps...
Written by Nicole J. There was no shortage of Black Girl Magic at the Met Gala last week. Serena Williams stunned in yellow. Danai Gurira looked her t...
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The Big Bang Theory: South Asian Men in Hollywood...
Written by Saran Lawson This is an interracial media site. So, I feel like this is the perfect place to share this thought amongst friends. Let’s ta...
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Coming Soon! The Pink Pill for College Girls!...
Since the amazing success of The Pink Pill, the first self-improvement course made specifically for black women, I’ve had ladies ask me if there...
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Hispanic woman to play Florence in The Jeffersons Remake ...
Written by Nicole J. As far as television goes, I prefer watching shows set in the 90s or later (I’m a Millennial, sue me). However, preferences asi...
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How do I date as an introverted black woman?...
Thanks for submitting your questions, readers! See below for my response 🙂 I live in Washington, DC. I have been out of the dating scene for over...
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How Pinkies Do Preppy Summer Parties in Posh La Jolla...
La Jolla is the wealthiest city in San Diego, with streets with million-dollar homes considered slightly shabby. The gorgeous cliffs and coves at the ...
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In Honor of Mothers Day: Birthing, Un-Glamorized...
Written by Saran Lawson Almost a year ago, my sister gave birth to the most adorable baby I’ve seen. I say that every time one of my sisters give bi...
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For Mother’s Day: 8 Ways Black Women Fail Their Childr...
Written by Nicole Let me start by saying that I’m not a mother. I want children, just not yet. If you think my current childless state means I am no...
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My Thoughts On Ayesha Curry’s Real Problem...
By now, you’ve heard about Ayesha Curry’s Red Table Talk interview. Some of the things that came out were her insecurity about the sports groupies...
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Happy Birthday, Baby Sussex!...
Written by Nicole J. Happy birthday to Baby Boy Sussex! View this post on Instagram We are pleased to announce that Their Royal Highnesses The Duke an...
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Sephora Product Picks for the Spring 2019 VIB Sale...
Written by Nicole J. It’s that time of year again, when Sephora has their yearly Spring sale! This year, the sale is April 26 to May 6 for VIB Rouge...
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What Lurks Beneath: Why More Women are Choosing Infidelity...
Written by Saran Lawson There is little to no argument that women have changed in the last several decades. We have become more health conscious and w...
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Dress Codes, Faux Outrage, and the Black Woman’s Image Pro...
Written by Nicole J. Growing up, my mom always told me the only event you wear pajamas to was your bed. She imparted that the only reason PJs should b...
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Black Women Out Here Fighting to Wear Bonnets and Nightgowns...
The internet is once again abuzz with the latest outrage that a (black female) principal in Houston has enacted a dress code…for parents. Appare...
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