Attraction or Self Hate?...

Written by Saran Lawson This subject is a little sensitive in the Interracial Dating community. So, I’m going to handle it as delicately as I can. I was skimming Facebook when I ran across an interesting article. Madelyn Chung, the author of the article shares her story with the message “Because people of color can…

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Pink Pill for College Girls: Career Leveling Up Techniques...

Written by Nicole J. 2019 has been the year of the level up. Relationships, finances, choices, you name it, ladies everywhere are committing themselve...

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Lessons to learn from Rohan Marley’s recent nuptials...

Written by Nicole J. Rohan Marley, son of the legendary Bob Marley, got married to his Brazilian bride Barbara Fialho, back in March. And like anythin...

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How can I get back in the dating game after a 20-year marria...

I ran across your post and decided to ask a few questions. My 45th birthday is coming up and I wanted to start dating again. I have been divorced for ...

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Tiffany Haddish: Met Gala Missteps...

Written by Nicole J. There was no shortage of Black Girl Magic at the Met Gala last week. Serena Williams stunned in yellow. Danai Gurira looked her t...

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The Big Bang Theory: South Asian Men in Hollywood...

Written by Saran Lawson This is an interracial media site. So, I feel like this is the perfect place to share this thought amongst friends. Let’s ta...

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Coming Soon! The Pink Pill for College Girls!...

Since the amazing success of The Pink Pill, the first self-improvement course made specifically for black women, I’ve had ladies ask me if there...

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Hispanic woman to play Florence in The Jeffersons Remake ...

Written by Nicole J. As far as television goes, I prefer watching shows set in the 90s or later (I’m a Millennial, sue me). However, preferences asi...

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How do I date as an introverted black woman?...

Thanks for submitting your questions, readers! See below for my response 🙂 I live in Washington, DC.  I have been out of the dating scene for over...

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How Pinkies Do Preppy Summer Parties in Posh La Jolla...

La Jolla is the wealthiest city in San Diego, with streets with million-dollar homes considered slightly shabby. The gorgeous cliffs and coves at the ...

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In Honor of Mothers Day: Birthing, Un-Glamorized...

Written by Saran Lawson Almost a year ago, my sister gave birth to the most adorable baby I’ve seen. I say that every time one of my sisters give bi...

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For Mother’s Day: 8 Ways Black Women Fail Their Childr...

Written by Nicole Let me start by saying that I’m not a mother. I want children, just not yet. If you think my current childless state means I am no...

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My Thoughts On Ayesha Curry’s Real Problem...

By now, you’ve heard about Ayesha Curry’s Red Table Talk interview. Some of the things that came out were her insecurity about the sports groupies...

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Happy Birthday, Baby Sussex!...

Written by Nicole J. Happy birthday to Baby Boy Sussex! View this post on Instagram We are pleased to announce that Their Royal Highnesses The Duke an...

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Sephora Product Picks for the Spring 2019 VIB Sale...

Written by Nicole J. It’s that time of year again, when Sephora has their yearly Spring sale! This year, the sale is April 26 to May 6 for VIB Rouge...

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What Lurks Beneath: Why More Women are Choosing Infidelity...

Written by Saran Lawson There is little to no argument that women have changed in the last several decades. We have become more health conscious and w...

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Dress Codes, Faux Outrage, and the Black Woman’s Image Pro...

Written by Nicole J. Growing up, my mom always told me the only event you wear pajamas to was your bed. She imparted that the only reason PJs should b...

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Black Women Out Here Fighting to Wear Bonnets and Nightgowns...

The internet is once again abuzz with the latest outrage that a (black female) principal in Houston has enacted a dress code…for parents. Appare...

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The Easter Bunny: Defender of Black Women...

Written by Nicole J. Another day, another black woman being abused with black men looking on in impotence. From the audio in the clip above, viewed ov...

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Common Anti-Swirling Scare Tactics and Potential Responses...

Written by Nicole J. Now more than ever, the relationship choices made by black women are pretty much a political statement. But there is no relations...

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The Yaaaas! Life: Making Sacrifices To Get What You Really W...

Years ago, I had a personal trainer who said something in a casual conversation that has stuck with me for well over a decade now. “Excuses are like...

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Ancestry.com Ad and the Curious Case of Faux Outrage...

Written by Nicole J. The controversial Ancestry.com ad featuring a black woman and white man in love in the time of slavery days has been removed and ...

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Ancestry.com commercial: I Have Mixed Feelings and Here̵...

Written by Saran Lawson I love love guys. I make it no secret on my Instagram page or my blog. I love it when people can come together despite socioec...

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Ancestry.com Risks it All with Slave-Era IR Romance Commerci...

So…a birdie showed me this… While I’m not sure who this couple is (I Googled her; nada). But the idea of investigating whether these...

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“If you’re so happy swirling, why do you write a...

Written by Nicole J. I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even w...

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“Italian Stallion” Frank Tufano Joins Me on YouT...

As a content creator with my own share of drama, I’m always fascinated by what other people sip tea and pop the popcorn on. Boy, was I surprised...

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What Are We Really Hungry For?...

For years, I was able to maintain my weight with minimal exercise and a balanced diet. Then my late 30s set in and it became a lot harder. Not only th...

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Dear Black Women: Never Accept Struggle Dates!...

Written by Nicole J. In this age of social media, there is no shortage of material to write about. Since I frequently write about the unique experienc...

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Video: About the Guardian Article on Colorism…...

The Guardian is doing a series on colorism, and I can say is…IT’S ABOUT TIME! In this video, I address this article in particular....

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Secret Rule to Meet Men...

Written by Saran Lawson It’s crowded in the Mexican Restaurant the day we decided to patronize. This place is standing room only. Of course, the...

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