Point, Click, Date, and Mate: An Online Dating Primer...

Point, click, date and mate: an online dating primer

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Big News: Regular BB&W Feature to Start Next Week!...

Okay, this feature is specifically for all you lurkers (I e-see you!) out there, scrounging all over The Creation for advice about a particular challe...

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Friday Funny: I'm Mad They Changed That Baskin Robbins ...

So, I’m protesting. I’m going back to buying those baked cardboard boxes topped with icing the consistency of toothpaste at the WalMart. S...

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Why Is Your ‘Ethnic’ Boyfriend Hiding You in His...

Is your ethnic boyfriend hiding you in the closet?...

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Out of the office…...

Yes, internet globe trotter that I am; but you can check me out on CW’s site this morning, talking about her MOST FAVORITE subject in the world&...

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Psst! How Hard (or Easy) is It to Date and Marry an ‘...

How hard/easy is it to date an ethnic man?...

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Consumerism is the De-bil!...

[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDDQSSTHclI&hl=en_US&fs=1&border=1] Did you hear in the video how he wants a lot of stuff but jus...

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Beyond Black & White has a Facebook Fan Page!...

We have a Facebook fan page! Join already, geez!...

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Full of Hot Air...

Yesterday I and the hubby woke up to whoooosh! hoooooo! whooosh! It kind of sounded like Darth Vader doing long, yogic breaths–you know– i...

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Happy Loving Day!...

Happy Loving Day!...

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The Top 11 Reasons I Can’t Write a Decent Blog Today:...

First things first, I gotta say, this blog is becoming such an intelligent, empowering and supportive community. I am astonished, humbled and grateful...

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An Announcement!...

Janice and I have a agent for our book!...

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What’s Wrong with Having a Preference, Anyway?...

What's wrong with having a preference?...

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A New Look for Emma?...

Since most of you frowned upon my bald-headed baby wearing a lace front wig, my oldest daughter–who has an obsession about hair that I am increa...

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"Like" should be eliminated from the English langu...

My 12-year-old uses that word to the point of absurdity and needs to be stopped. If she comes home from school one more day and I overhear her and her...

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I'm a Guest Blogger!...

Check out my open letter to single black women looking for love on CW’s blog! Then come back in here and read some more. You don’t really ...

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Please say a prayer…...

This weekend I am undergoing emergency surgery to remove the laptop that has aheared to my thighs. It requires tremendous amounts of mental energy to ...

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Friday Funny: How do you feel about so many young kids weari...

Sweet daughter she is, but my youngest is bald, with just a little quail tuft in the front. So my oldest thought that maybe we should try this look, y...

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What’s Got White Women Running Scared?...

Are white women threatened by black women?...

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Why Are Some Black Men Seeing Red When Black Women Date Whit...

Why are some black men seeing red when black women date white?...

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The Karazin Family Vacation: Like Band Camp Without the Inst...

Well, sheesh. It’s June already, and I only have 25 more days until the semi-annual Karazin Family Vacation-slash-Reunion. Every few years Mamma...

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My Memorial Day Conundrum...

Ah…it’s a beautiful California day. The blackberries in my garden are just about to ripen (I make a mean blackberry cobbler!), the pool is...

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A mixed box of [white] chocolates...

Since it’s the weekend, and I’m not entirely sure how many of you are actually STILL sitting in front of your computers during the officia...

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Why are we fighting?...

Black women are fighting for Prince Not-So-Charming...

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