Mamie: “I Am Damaged, But Not Broken.”...

I woke up this morning and got ready for work and looked in the mirror for a bit. Such a mundane inconsequential action, looking in the mirror, but when I was younger I would avoid mirrors like the plague. I hated looking at myself. I was afraid to be confronted what I already knew, I…

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Everybody Ain’t “The Lovings”: Why Are Old...

On the fan page today I presented a man, Stan, 58, who reached out to me because he wished to connect with a like-minded black woman. I was a little ...

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Video Diary: For Those Who Want to Know What the Heck I Do W...

I’ve never done a video like this before, but the Little Man was excited to be front and center because he wanted to be like “The Nive Nul...

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February First: Open thread...

Just thought it was time for another Open Thread so that you can talk about what is on your minds. ...

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Taraji P. Henson on her role as Cookie on FOX’s ‘Empire�...

Empire, the new music-drama from FOX, is a humongous hit. It follows hip-hop mogul Luscious Lyon (portrayed by Terrence Howard) as he prepares to take...

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IRR Romance: Chameleon by Ashe Barker...

    Beyond Black and White Article As a white author, it was something of a challenge to write an interracial erotic romance where the heroine i...

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Next Friday: A Date with Wes Murphy, Live on G+!...

Wes with hair… Isn’t he totally adorable??    This may be one of the most enjoyable G+ hangouts yet! Fellow You Tuber, Wes Murphy is...

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Zara: “I Don’t Swirl, I Date.”...

I don’t Swirl, I Date.  I have often wondered about the term, “Swirling,” ever since it made its way into everyday (US pop culture)...

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For Those Who Think Insults Endear You…Think Again....

One thing that the black community clings to for dear life is the notion that people can be changed and taught through humiliation and degradation. It...

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Leona’s Love Quest : Friends with Penalties...

Leona’s Love Quest  Friends with Penalties Whether it’s possible for a man and a woman to be friends is an age-old question made popular by a sce...

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Full-Feature Make-up Tutorial: Secrets to Smooth and Poreles...

  Unlike Beyonce, I don’t wake up looking like this. There’s a lot that goes into having camera-ready skin. It’s funny, because...

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Mamie: Your (Black) Feminism Crash Course…...

By Mamie Mooney As the saying goes,”You’re only as good (or as relevant) as your loudest idiot.” Unfortunately, feminism has had the...

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Ever Wonder What Millennials Think About Interracial Dating?...

By Shannon Rogers, BB&W College Correspondent Bridging the Gap: Millennial’s and Interracial Dating Aisha, 22, Senior: “I asked him: “Do you...

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When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America...

There is yet another “relationship” book by black men aimed at black women. As soon as I heard this one has eight – EIGHT – co-authors, I knew...

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Video: Five Reasons Nobody Wants a Black Woman!...

Take a look…you’ll probably get a kick out of it. It’s my attempt to disrupt all the hate-filled, anti-black woman screeds on You Tu...

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Sleepy Hollow is on the Verge of Cancellation. What Happened...

  The TV show Scandal ushered in a wave of TV projects starring black women. One of the first was Sleepy Hollow, starring Nicole Beharie, which b...

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Friday Funny: I Was Robbed by Ghetto Birds!...

I was just minding my own business having lunch at the Historic Mission Inn in Riverside yesterday, and look…          ...

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Anti-Swirling Black Women And You: Why Their Loudness Means ...

I was moved to write this post by BBW community member Vivaforever, who expressed her concerns over the ugly hatred that is spread toward black women ...

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‘Ratchet’ Doesn’t Happen in a Bubble! Lett...

A fan just shared this with me…it’s unbelievable. But read closely and you’ll see that these events don’t happen in a bubble. ...

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Michael and Kemi – A BB&W Google+ Community Love ...

If you’ve been hanging out in the Beyond Black & White Google+ community over the last couple months, you got to witness this love connection go...

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OMG…”Scandal-ishous” Wedding!...

All you ‘Olitz’ fans out there might not ever see the fictional couple tie the knot, but drown yourself in the fantasy of this couple, who...

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Update! BB&W Goes to Vegas in 2015!!...

Great news!  We now have The Linq at $97 per night including taxes! Also, if one or two people take a deluxe king room, the rate (including taxes) is...

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Beauty Tuesdays: New You Tube Beauty Channel, MAC Concealer,...

Shea Moisture continues to delight with product after quality product, and the newest expansion (a least it’s new for me) of the Jamaican Black ...

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QOTW: Twenty-Something I.T. Girl’s Swirling Woes in Ne...

Got this message today from a fan… Here is my question for you and your readers. I am a 22 black female from the suburbs of New York who just gr...

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‘Black or White’: New Film Tackles White Grandparents Ra...

It’s been great to see Kevin Costner regularly making films again. (We all love The Bodyguard, right? lol). Honestly, I had forgotten all about him ...

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Take That, Haters! BB&W ‘Circle of Support’...

If you’ve been on the interracial dating pages on Facebook, you’ve probably run across this haterade:   People can be so cruel on the...

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IRR Romance: Pretending With The Playboy...

Pretending With The Playboy by Tracey Livesay Commitment makes you weak. It’s playboy Carter Richardson’s motto. The only exception to the...

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AAWG: Lady J’s Dating Profile Pic Do’s & Do...

by SavageTango I’m laying here on the bed, looking up at the ceiling, and I can’t move. Not after what some chick named Lady J just put me...

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Conservative White Men Married to Black Women Sound Off on J...

People should really do their homework when they come for this community, because I find that you folks are truly galvanized to protect what’s y...

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Throwing Signs: Letting Him Know You’re Open and Inter...

Stalemates suck, don’t they? For every guy who’s asking, “How can I tell if the woman I’m interested in is open to dating non-black men?�...

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