‘Best You’ Campaign Ready to Launch; Special Mes...

I’m so excited for 2015, because we’re about to embark on one of the most exciting things we’ve ever done. We’re all going to go on a journey. A journey to be the BEST VERSION of ourselves. Whether it’s with your mind, body or spirit (or all of the above) we’re going to go on…

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The Discipline of Happiness – Being the BEST version of YO...

        By “Empress NK” “Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln “We cannot ...

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Okay; I’ll Admit It. I’m Feeling Some Kinda Way ...

  *Before you read on, being insulting or unnecessarily cruel in your comments won’t be tolerated, regardless of your hue.* When I heard ab...

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On Justifying Preferences, and Evolving Preferences…...

Why Do You Feel You Have to Explain? So much guilt I sense in reading some of the notes BB&W followers have about their preferences for non-black ...

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BB&W Goes to Vegas in 2015!!...

It was only a matter of time before it came to this. All of us, in this community, after years of bonding, will come together in pure “The Hango...

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SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Joys of Christmas...

 We are finishing out the 2014 with pin-ups and a special message for our readers.        Change is in the air. This will be the final Ba...

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Watch Out for ‘Childmen’ With Pathological Entit...

As an observer and participant in social media, I’m privy to a wide range of belief systems. Some are based in reality. Many are so off the mark...

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Farhia and Jason – Customs, Cultures and Baby Makes Th...

Farhia and Jason were astounded that their beautiful wedding photographs went viral on the Internet.  The pics of this chic and hip urban couple are ...

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Video: Hilarious Memes of 2014. Did Your Favorite Make the L...

I did this just for fun. Okay; how many did I miss? Attach them below!...

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The Battle of the Azealias: Who Gets Mocked, Who Gets Protec...

I won’t lie. I don’t listen to modern day hip hop. But you’d pretty much have to be living under a rock if you haven’t heard F...

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The Critics are Right. I AM “Crazy.”...

I don’t always play well with others. I am occasionally prone to outbursts. Doesn’t happen often, but when it does, it’s kinda epic....

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IRR Romance: Perfect Fit by Taige Crenshaw...

    Beyond Black and White feature by: Taige Crenshaw   Characters and the impressions they make to the reader are pivotal to a book. Estab...

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Holiday Dresses for Every Body Type...

The holiday season is here and so are office parties, family functions, and any other excuse you can imagine to buy a dress. Now, the tricky part is f...

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Online Friendships Ain’t Real, and Why You Should Only...

Events over the passed 24 hours have resulted in the loss of two people I thought were friends and the dissolution of a business relationship. Of cour...

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End of the Year, End of the Drama, Part II...

People whom I care about have contacted me regarding my last post about my feelings of being dragged into petty Facebook wars and the subsequent gossi...

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Leona’s Love Quest  OK, Cupid Tap Me Out: I’m Done wit...

I know I’ve threatened to quit online dating before, but this time, for realsies, I’m done with it. I’ve tried Plenty of Fish, Match.com, Chemis...

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QOTW: Geeky Guys Seeks Girl, but with Strings Attached....

The question… Hello Christelyn, I’m going to be straight forward, how do I grab the attention of a woman as a geeky introvert? By introver...

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Former Naysayer Takes Health in Her Own Hands and Thrives!!...

Got this note from a longtime reader and Facebook friend, Amber McDowell a few months ago… I remember a post you wrote about black women needing...

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Christine and Masa – East Meets West...

 Masa and Christine This is another online dating success story.  Chris and Masa met in February 2013 on Match.com.  Chris was looking for and foun...

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Television is STILL Not Ready to Make Black Women ‘The...

If you’ve been around for a while, you might know that I watch soap operas. Not just casually either–my DVR is set to Bold and the Beautif...

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What Pictures Say About You That You Might Not Like…...

I am an amateur photographer, and I’m told I take a pretty good photo. The most important thing I’ve learned about the art is that each ph...

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Like What I’m Wearing? Get It for $5 on Hautelook Befo...

I’ve been getting a lot of people on my Facebook page, raving about the lip color I’m sporting in this photo.   I’ve got news. ...

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QOTW: Should White Guys Date ‘Sister Soldiers?’...

The question… Getting to know a nice African American woman.  She is terrific – she graduated with honors from an elite liberal arts coll...

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New Book Presentation: Change Your Mind Change Your Destiny...

Change Your Mind Change Your Destiny  by Lakisha A. Watson-Moore          Unlike other books written for Black women, “Change Your Mind, C...

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Another Letter From an Asian Guy…...

Got this letter today, and it warmed my heart. Be encouraged! I enjoy reading your site. |I saw your last article on potentially throwing in the towel...

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Three Camille Rose Natural Products I’ve Tried and Lov...

I’ve been wearing my hair out a lot lately, and while I love the volume of my afro, all that handling is causing my ends to become very unhappy....

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Breaking the Bank? Three Personal Finance Tips to Get You Pr...

Three Personal Finance Tips to Get You Prepared for the New Year 2014 is just about done and the New Year is around the corner. How are you planning t...

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IRR Romance Review: Hurricane by Taige Crenshaw...

My review of Taige Crenshaw’s “Hurricane” (The Singleton) – By Yema Nelson First thing’s first.  This IS A MUST READ!!! This is the kind of...

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