As Much as I Love Christian Bale, I WON’T Be Watching ...

…And neither should you. Hollywood has a looooong history of white-washing biblical stories that originated on or around the continent of Africa, so much so that Egyptian history is part of the Western History curriculum. There are some people who have no idea that Egypt is in AFRICA, and the average citizen looks like this……

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SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: African Beauty Part One...

Marcelina Vahekeni – Angola     Edmilza Dos Santos – Angola                    ...

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The One Thing that Motivates *Manly* Men…...

So I know what you’re thinking. Men are motivated by sex, and that motivation means their not always particularly choosey about whom they knock ...

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AAWG: Holiday Magic...

Well well, look at you! Now that’s what a Swirlin man looks like when it’s time to clean it up and bust out the GQ thing for his SwirlyGirl! ...

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Asian Men…I’m Getting To a Certain Point Where I...

There’s no doubt that people of color are constantly jockeying for the spot as model minority status in this country, but no such group strives...

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Join Me and Wes Murphy Tonight on G+: How to Overcome Shynes...

Getting out there is hard. It’s really hard when you’re shy. And even if you’re not shy, fear of approaching someone and being rejec...

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The Psychology of Red Lips that Make the Guys Go “Meow...

The holidays are swiftly approaching, and you might be determined to ring out the year by making a connection with a special guy. After all, you’...

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Tips On How to Approach Black Women with Confidence...

What better time of year than the holidays to give you the little nudge you need to get the girl you’ve had your eye on....

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Objectifying Our Girls…Thank the Gods Malia Has Body G...

Ok we made our voices heard  about Elizabeth Lauton’s disrespectful criticism of the President’s daughters, but if we do not address the even mo...

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Gifts for the Nerd In Your Life…...

Men may be simple creatures, but they’re sometimes the hardest to buy for. And depending on your guy’s disposition, the old standby shirt ...

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SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Global Beat Asia Connection...

I do apologize about posting this late. A birthday celebration was the cause complete with a birthday meal lovingly prepared by my lady wife. While I ...

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Charles Barkley: “The Black Community Has a Lot of Cro...

Skimming over news reports this morning, I couldn’t help but click the CNN video of Charles Barkley telling some very uncomfortable truths about...

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On Selling the Dream of “Good Hair” to Naturalis...

This post was going to be all about how much I love Mizani’s D’Tangle spray, which works wonders on my second day hair that needs a little...

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The Official Bill Cosby (Alleged) Rape/Rant Thread…...

I have been struggling with the news about Bill Cosby allegedly slipping white women bennies and having nonconsensual sex with them, and I keep not wa...

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Resignation of GOP Staffer Proves What Happens When Black Wo...

Somebody’s gonna learn today what happens when you mess with the daughters of the most powerful man in the free world. LOL…guess she thoug...

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Are African Women More Desperate to Look White Than Black Am...

I’ve watched in horror as story after story of news that another prominent African woman is embroiled in some skin-lightening scandal. And for s...

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Day Four of Urban Decay’s Vice 3 Palette: “Purpl...

Purple is my favorite color. It’s so rich and royal, isn’t it? Problem is, there’s about 100 shades of purple, and not all of them m...

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Special for VIP Forum Subscribers: 8 Tips on How to Create a...

Let’s face it. Online dating can be tough, and it’s hard to stand out from the herd, and if you’re a black woman, you can face a lot...

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Heart to Heart Review...

Heart To Heart: A Review By: Zahavah Melech Blurb for Heart to Heart from Amazon.com “When her immortal mom falls into a death-like sleep, 16-ye...

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IRR Romance Read: Harbour of Refuge by Aliyah Burke...

Reader Advisory: This book is part of a series but can be read as a stand alone and in any order. This is book two in the In Aeternum series. Beyond B...

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Should You End Your Interracial Relationship Because of the ...

I received this question from a woman today, clearly torn about recent events, and unsure if she should continue her interracial relationship. I am in...

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Winner of the “Happy Couple” Contest…Jim &...

We got so many responses from readers for the “Happy Couple” contest, but one stood out so much, and touched so many that it really wasn&#...

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Day Three of the Vice 3 Palette: “Get Frosty”...

I hear that our East Coast folks got their first snow today. Just in time for my “frosty” look using Urban Decay’s best-ever Vice 3 ...

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SirLoin’s Babe Wenesday: Global Beat Latin America...

For this week’s worship of beauty we are going global.  First stop, Latin America.  In this post we feature Afro Latina models and actresses. ...

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Healthy and Filling Pre-Holiday Smoothie...

It’s Thanksgiving eve and the mass execution of turkeys is done, and the carcass safely nestled in your refrigerator. But before you gorge yours...

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QOTW: Are You the Backup Booty?...

Got this question from a fan… Hi this is probably the first time I’ve reached out to anyone about the issue i have. I’m a 32 yr old ...

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Day Two of the Vice 3 Palette: “New Mexico Sunset̶...

When I was a kid, we made a lot of road trips to Texas by way of Arizona to New Mexico. By far, it’s some of the most beautiful country I’...

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#Ferguson...

Because of the sensitive nature of this story, we’ve decided to hold the conversation over at the forum. You can read and contribute to the conv...

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Is Gabriel Aubrey Trying to ‘White Wash’ Nahla?...

So Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubrey are back in court, and this time it’s over Halle’s outrage that Nahla’s father seems to be chemica...

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Vetting a Spiritual Community...

Many people sense that there is something greater at work in the universe; that humans on Earth are not the sum game of life. Religion often provides ...

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