Dear Black Nationalists, Don’t Use Halle Berry’s...

Okay. Only black men are allowed to beat their women and call them out of their names *cough* Lil Wayne and all c-rappers *cough* So sorry.

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Guest of the Inner Sanctum: Zabeth says, “Get Your Min...

Our beloved Zabeth breaks down dating do's and don'ts so FOR LOVE OF OF ALL THINGS WHOLLY listen!...

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Pepsi and Bounce Need to Bounce! (EXCLUSIVE Interview with P...

Raise your hand if you're sick and tired of black women being portrayed as fat, mammy bitches. ...

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“Freaky” Friday Funny: Textbook Sex....

Teach me a new sex trick only using fruit and vegetable euphemisms and get a sexy gift just in time for V-Day....

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Beauty: All About Hair…Unbe-weave-able??...

Deal or No Deal? You guys decide....

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Question of the Week: “I love him! Then, he stopped c...

I got this question on Facebook from a young girl just out of college. But her situation could happen to any of us new to the rainbeau dating world, ...

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Guest of the Inner Sanctum: American Black Chick in Europe!!...

"I grew up in Atlanta, aka Hotlanta, aka the black gay (male) Mecca, aka the WORST place for black women to date interracially. And that last one? Kin...

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In Defense of “Becky.”...

Okay, it’s time to go bare-assed in this post, because before I can write ANOTHER GEE DEE THING on this site, we’re gonna have to get out ...

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Your Super Bowl Homework…DUE IMMEDIATELY!...

For your SINGLE girls: If I catch you at home washing your hair or polishing your toe nails through this PRIME OPPORTUNITY to meet a rainbeau, you get...

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Friday Funny: Just A Little Reminder…...

With all the Asian boy drama happening on this site this week, thought I'd dust this one off, just in case you're one of the 2.5 people who haven't se...

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Health: Dump the Gym, Save the $$. Work Your A-Off Watching...

By now, you know I'm on a one-woman mission to whip EVERY, SINGLE ONE OF YOU into optimal shape--inside and out. Not that I'm all perfect though--I'm...

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Candy Tolentino: The New, NEW Black Woman...

Forget that she’s gorgeous. And smart. And innovative. And a fellow LMU alumna (although that in itself is enough for me to luv her). She’...

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Candy Tolentino: The New, NEW Black Woman...

Forget that she’s gorgeous. And smart. And innovative. And a fellow LMU alumna (although that in itself is enough for me to luv her). She’...

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Lorem Ipsum is simply dummy text of the printing and typesetting industry. Lorem Ipsum has been the industry’s standard dummy text ever since th...

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How to Date an Asian Guy (Warning! Rated “R” for...

I have to say, I AM LOVING my girl, JC Davies’ book, I Got the Fever. What I like best is how she organizes the dating experiences of each race&...

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Guest of the Inner Sanctum: Tanisha Everett, “Stop Run...

"I have never had much luck in romantic relationships. I tend to pack up and leave whatever city or country I am in whenever the mood hits or the oppo...

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Friday Funny: A Guidepost for Rainbeaus Navigating Through B...

Guys, here's some sisterly advice on how not to get your arse e-kicked by the chocolate girl you want to impress....

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BB&W Atlanta Meet Up!!!!...

I'm so excited! This is the FIRST ever BB&W party out of the e-world!...

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Style: The Art of Conversation–Your Key to Unlock a Ra...

How to speak without catching foot-in-mouth disease....

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Question of the Week: “I’m almost 30; I Don̵...

I just HAD to post this question in it's entirety--it's a bit long, but I don't care! SHE is why I write this blog everyday. SHE is why I'm writing ...

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BB&W Exclusive: Steve Harvey’s Ex Dishes to Autho...

It's interesting how some things come together. Just yesterday, I posted a video of Steve Harvey and his new trade-in on CNN, lamenting that the commu...

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Ever Lost a Friend Because of Your Rainbeau?...

Some "friends" are funny. Funny, because they REALLY like you when you're miserable, lonely, gained weight, pregnant by Ray Ray or Tyrone, on AFDC, fl...

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…Because I Have Don’t Have the Time For 1,000 W...

Blame it on Herb Way, photographer extraordinaire and creator of Portraits of Eve, for inspiring me to tinker with photography. THANKS A LOT, HERB!!...

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Friday Funny: Who Would You Boink??...

If there was no penalty or shame at all, who would you drop trou with?...

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Style: Do You Dress Yourself Blindfolded? Fashion 101 with F...

Exclusive interview with Brenda Kinsel, image and style expert extraordinaire ...

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Question of the Week: “Did His Parents Make Him Break ...

This question from Sher is near and dear to the ticker, because I can soooooo relate....

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Are You a Sh-Alpha? No Wonder He Didn’t Call You Back...

If you see yourself in this list, you may be doomed to live alone with 100 cats. ...

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Tribute to Dr. Martin Luthor King and the WOMEN who Supporte...

MLK taught me one of the greatest lessons of my life: Choose character above color....

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Do Black Men ‘Hate’ Black Women?...

The answer might not be as simple as you think....

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