I came, I saw, I grilled....

OK grill masters…..and mistresses. Good weather is here and its time to post your best grill recipes.  Tell us about your favourite dry rubs, wet mop, equipment, techniques and grilling sites. You name it. Don’t grill?  No problem. Give us the name and location of the best bar-b-que restaurant you’ve dined in. No reason why…

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Whaaat?! Shea Moisture Has a New Professional Line!...

I went to Sally’s today to get some mini bun forms because I’m doing my quarterly hide-my-ends phase to keep my ‘fro Diana Ross insp...

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Open Thread: Any thing but the “Struggle”...

Are you as sick of this week’s national headlines as I am? Thought so. Have at it ladies and gents. Weekend plans.  Date night. Favorite foods...

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Cukes in a Pot: Pickles and Fruit and Veggie Salad...

This year I decided to order seeds from Baker Street Heirloom seed catalog, because I want to prefect my pickling processing. The Hubster loves them, ...

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Map of “Most Racist” Regions Could Explain Why I...

We’ve speculated, but I think the following data might explain why some interracial couples can go through everyday life with relative ease, and...

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Before You Protest, This is What I Want For You....

Before you read on, know that this post is not referencing any particular protest or activism going on right now. I am speaking in generalities. Siste...

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Troll Asks, “What Race Will Your Kids Be?”...

Don’t you find it interesting how invested some people are in delineating and categorizing biracials or people claiming to be more than one race...

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Leona’s Love Quest: With Every End Comes a New Beginning...

Leona’s Love Quest  With Every End Comes a New Beginning The end of the spring semester is always bittersweet for me. Not only do I have to say goo...

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Unexpected Use for Pet Bedding in the Garden!...

If you planning on gardening in pots or raised beds this growing season, consider this discovery I found for keeping your soil cool and moist during t...

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Dating Scarcity Perspective Leaves You Vulnerable; Only 3 &#...

Last week I was directed to an informal study by Best Black Dating Sites that caused a mini uproar, but thanks to the mainstream black media’s p...

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Open Thread: The sexy men of BB&W...

The incomparable Trinigirl1 has done it again. You posted them and she set it all to music. Ladies……. and gents please enjoy this montage ...

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Are You Brave Enough to ‘Cut Bait’ In Order to M...

A friend of mine recently shared with me her dissatisfaction with a man whom she’s been seeing. Early in the relationship, he came on strong, fu...

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The Travel Bug and Why I’m Okay With Being “Too ...

Anyone else here tired of being told that the reason they’re still single is that they’re too picky? Yeah, I thought so. I’ve been hearing this ...

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Why Is Ben Affleck Scared for the Public to Know His Ancesto...

The Sony leaks are the embarrassing gift that keeps on giving. The most recent what-the-cuss was news that actor Ben Affleck lobbied to have the show,...

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Product Pick for Defined and Moisture-Rich Curls...

I just picked up Ouidad’s Whipped Curls Daily Conditioner and Styling Primer on a whim, because I’ve noticed recently that several hair ma...

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Epic Responses to Dumb A** Video Claiming Black Women are Mo...

I got a slew of messages about this video… (First thing, all these couples should go to You Tube because their images are being used, more than ...

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Open Thread: Parenting the biracial child....

I read this exchange on the Recent Incident in Maine a Sober Reminder That Interracial Couples are Still a Target article and thought it important eno...

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Continued Victory…Our Voice is Being Heard Worldwide!...

Got this letter from a man in Quebec. It’s amazing how our platform is reaching so far and wide…and we’re virtually the counter bala...

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In the Garden: Purple Cabbage and Coleslaw!...

I know you pass it in the produce section, and you probably think it’s pretty, and with that deep purple, it’s probably got all kinds of a...

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QOTW: Texting Vs. Face to Face Contact…Which is Better...

Got this note from a real cutie…I’m going to put his photo up here. Poor Bambi tho…deer looking like, “Why?! WHYYYYY??????...

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BB&W Family, I Need Your Help. This Man is Attacking My...

BB&W family, I really need your help. There is a sorry-excuse for a man name Sergeant Willy Pete who makes regular videos criticizing me, which is...

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Reader Responds to “What Black Men Think of Natural Ha...

Yesterday I got the best letter. It was from Kelvin Bulluck, a photographer in the Baltimore area. Hello Christelyn, I recently came across your post...

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QOTW: IR Dating Black Woman Hates Seeing Black Men Do It Too...

The question: I just recently signed up for your email subscription. I get so excited when an email pops up from you. I enjoy reading the questions an...

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Orange (Makeup) Is the New Black: Quick Skin Prep, Tutorial ...

I absolutely love spring! It’s time to break out the flirty and feminine dresses, and get colorful with the makeup. The theme for today is orang...

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New Study Suggests Professional Black Women “Marry Dow...

It’s well known that most black women are taught by their parents to get through school, don’t get pregnant, and don’t worry about g...

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Azealia Banks’ New Boo is HAAAWWWRRRRTTT!!!...

Say what you want about her mouth, but Azealia Banks is aesthetically cute as a button, and boy, can she pull ’em. Check out her rumored new boo...

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Aaron Hernandez Gets Life, and What a Freaking Fail....

As I read the accounts of today’s conviction of Aaron Hernandez, former New England Patriots tight end-come newly appointed felon, I can’t...

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Is He Lying To You? Former CIA Agent Teaches You How to R...

We talk a lot about vetting potential mates, so that we make the best choices for our partners. But let’s face it..there’s a lot of men ou...

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Recent Incident in Maine a Sober Reminder That Interracial C...

An event occurred earlier this month that garnered national news. On a lovely spring day in Portland, Maine, an interracially married couple wanted to...

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Vegas Update...

We just got our 11th room booked for our event!  16 total people going! Just a reminder that final package payments are due in about a month. For tho...

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