Carrie: Making Love to ‘The Golfer’...

  As I lie in a hospice bed awaiting the answer to the extant question, ‘What’s wrong with me?’ I wondered… What really is wrong with me?  The halls of the Downtown Los Angeles Hospital echoed with cries of a madman refusing treatment, howls of terror crept up in my mind. Although I was alone, I…

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Open Thread: Mother’s Day Wishes...

Well, we could not let this special day pass and not offer an opportunity to pay tribute to our MOMs. Wishing a very Happy Mothers Day to the ladies w...

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Toni: Black Women Losing in the ‘Fairness Game’...

Yep, it’s Toni! You know something is important when I decide to break my “I’m too busy to write or BBW” to write something for BB...

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Video: How to Get Along with the White Women in Your Rainbea...

Now before you rev up your fingers for a rebuttal, understand that this video is based on my own individual experiences, but as the saying goes, yours...

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Always Alluring: The Hidden Sexual History of Black Women an...

Along the line of qui bono?, one might want to ask the question, who benefits from calling black women who date interracially “bed wenches?...

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BB&W Travel Adventure: Journey of My Life...

I apologize in advance for the low audio (s/n: headphones help!) But for those of you for whom this video is too low, basically this small town girl i...

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Paleo-Friendly Rich, Thick Vegetable Soups to LOVE and Keep ...

Right now in the garden I’m harvesting the celery and broccoli that has been growing so well through the fall, but is getting close to the end o...

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Who Benefits From Black Women Not Feeling Feminine?...

I’m really glad more and more critically thinking black women are beginning to ask the right kind of questions....

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Jane Iredale Does Emollient Matte Red, NYX Does Great Founda...

Right about now I have a good collection of red lipsticks, and I love them all I can’t decide which one is the best. However, the folks at Jane ...

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I came, I saw, I grilled....

OK grill masters…..and mistresses. Good weather is here and its time to post your best grill recipes.  Tell us about your favourite dry rubs, w...

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Whaaat?! Shea Moisture Has a New Professional Line!...

I went to Sally’s today to get some mini bun forms because I’m doing my quarterly hide-my-ends phase to keep my ‘fro Diana Ross insp...

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Open Thread: Any thing but the “Struggle”...

Are you as sick of this week’s national headlines as I am? Thought so. Have at it ladies and gents. Weekend plans.  Date night. Favorite foods...

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Cukes in a Pot: Pickles and Fruit and Veggie Salad...

This year I decided to order seeds from Baker Street Heirloom seed catalog, because I want to prefect my pickling processing. The Hubster loves them, ...

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Map of “Most Racist” Regions Could Explain Why I...

We’ve speculated, but I think the following data might explain why some interracial couples can go through everyday life with relative ease, and...

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Before You Protest, This is What I Want For You....

Before you read on, know that this post is not referencing any particular protest or activism going on right now. I am speaking in generalities. Siste...

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Troll Asks, “What Race Will Your Kids Be?”...

Don’t you find it interesting how invested some people are in delineating and categorizing biracials or people claiming to be more than one race...

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Leona’s Love Quest: With Every End Comes a New Beginning...

Leona’s Love Quest  With Every End Comes a New Beginning The end of the spring semester is always bittersweet for me. Not only do I have to say goo...

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Unexpected Use for Pet Bedding in the Garden!...

If you planning on gardening in pots or raised beds this growing season, consider this discovery I found for keeping your soil cool and moist during t...

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Dating Scarcity Perspective Leaves You Vulnerable; Only 3 &#...

Last week I was directed to an informal study by Best Black Dating Sites that caused a mini uproar, but thanks to the mainstream black media’s p...

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Open Thread: The sexy men of BB&W...

The incomparable Trinigirl1 has done it again. You posted them and she set it all to music. Ladies……. and gents please enjoy this montage ...

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Are You Brave Enough to ‘Cut Bait’ In Order to M...

A friend of mine recently shared with me her dissatisfaction with a man whom she’s been seeing. Early in the relationship, he came on strong, fu...

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The Travel Bug and Why I’m Okay With Being “Too ...

Anyone else here tired of being told that the reason they’re still single is that they’re too picky? Yeah, I thought so. I’ve been hearing this ...

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Why Is Ben Affleck Scared for the Public to Know His Ancesto...

The Sony leaks are the embarrassing gift that keeps on giving. The most recent what-the-cuss was news that actor Ben Affleck lobbied to have the show,...

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Product Pick for Defined and Moisture-Rich Curls...

I just picked up Ouidad’s Whipped Curls Daily Conditioner and Styling Primer on a whim, because I’ve noticed recently that several hair ma...

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Epic Responses to Dumb A** Video Claiming Black Women are Mo...

I got a slew of messages about this video… (First thing, all these couples should go to You Tube because their images are being used, more than ...

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Open Thread: Parenting the biracial child....

I read this exchange on the Recent Incident in Maine a Sober Reminder That Interracial Couples are Still a Target article and thought it important eno...

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Continued Victory…Our Voice is Being Heard Worldwide!...

Got this letter from a man in Quebec. It’s amazing how our platform is reaching so far and wide…and we’re virtually the counter bala...

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In the Garden: Purple Cabbage and Coleslaw!...

I know you pass it in the produce section, and you probably think it’s pretty, and with that deep purple, it’s probably got all kinds of a...

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QOTW: Texting Vs. Face to Face Contact…Which is Better...

Got this note from a real cutie…I’m going to put his photo up here. Poor Bambi tho…deer looking like, “Why?! WHYYYYY??????...

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BB&W Family, I Need Your Help. This Man is Attacking My...

BB&W family, I really need your help. There is a sorry-excuse for a man name Sergeant Willy Pete who makes regular videos criticizing me, which is...

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