Farhia and Jason, Two Ancient Cultures – Modern Day Lo...

   Jason and Farhia I saw Farhia and Jason’s beautiful wedding of April 11, 2013 in pictures.  Many have seen this couple’s fab photos as they are in various blogs and Pinterest boards.  I fell in love these pics and went directly to the outstanding photographer ‘s website and of course I wanted an interview.  They…

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Calling All Geeks! Comic Con 2014!!...

  Anyone going to Comic Con in 2014? Chris attended last year’s San Diego convention and the Swirling after-party seemed like it was a blast b...

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Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexua...

My recent comment over at Tracy Renee Jones‘s post “Village Voice Exposes R. Kelly and Our Willingness to Ignore The Sexual Assault of Bla...

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The Top 5 Most Ridiculous Anti-Beyoncé Statements Made Sinc...

Beyoncé has released a new album, which means that thousands of people went without lunch this week and that people who dislike the woman and/or her ...

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Six Tips for Eating Healthy During the Holidays...

By Ashley Harvard, BB&W Health and Wellness Editor With all of the holiday treats being passed around the office, at parties and in our homes, it ...

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Important Tweet Chat Today About Colorism on #SheThrivesChat...

You guys won’t want to miss this discussion about how damaging, soul killing, harmful, crippling, and cruel colorism continues to affect the bla...

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OMG…Loving YourKidVid…You Gotta See…Cuz Th...

Last year I filmed me and the kids taking a day trip up to the snow. I sent this to the folks over at YourKidVid and, equipped with elfin magic, they ...

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The Future of Dating As We Know It–the Good, the Weird...

Am I just old, or are these results just so incredibly scary and pathetic? The Future of Relationships from sparks & honey...

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QOTW: “Help! I’m Afraid My Family Won’t Ac...

The Question… Hi Christelyn, my name is Zahara, I’m 20 years old, and I am coming to you with in need of advice on my situation. I met a g...

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Village Voice Exposes R. Kelly and Our Willingness to Ignore...

If you are one of those unfortunate types that still find wonderment in the music of R Kelly then you have my condolences. Above and beyond the issue ...

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Monday Punday 16...

Monday-Punday 16 SirLoinDeBeef gleefully watched as the cat, yet again, deposited another delightful post-internal gift on the Persian silk carpet and...

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Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner: Breaking Bread With the ...

The holidays are supposed to be a time of celebration and cherished memories. Families, friends and old acquaintances find their way back to the nest ...

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A Vocation that Gives You the Ticket to Travel Is…...

We talk a lot about how travel can change your outlook and how you see yourself and how others see you. But most jobs won’t allow you to jump up...

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Head-To-Toe Holiday Ready. Are You?...

I recently did a photo shoot for a project that I’m dying to tell you about but can’t just yet. I’m sharing (some) of them with you ...

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Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate?...

This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The”Swirling” book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to...

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Ah, Technology. Heard of YourKidVid? You’d Better Lear...

So, I just discovered this cool new L.A. video company made up of award-winning directors, editors, and film-makers called YourKidVid. They’re b...

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What the Cuss?! More Media-Driven Anti-Black Woman, Anti-Swi...

A reader on our fan page brought this bit of bull-donkey to my attention and while I’m not surprised, I am sooo ticked off about the continued a...

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Chef Bob: Red Velvet Cheesecake, By Kay Rozier...

HOW TO MAKE RED VELVET CHEESECAKE!!!     Kay Rozier This is a spectacular ending to any meal or as a snack in the middle of the afternoon!  A re...

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Well Damn! Black Woman Writes Book Advising Sisters to Marry...

I’m seeing a lot of dating and advice books from black women who are interracially married, and I must say I’m glad to see it. Folks can g...

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Hey Naturals, Have You Guys Checked Out Ouidad Lately? Might...

I used to be a frequent Ouidad user for my hair and for Clo Clo (the middle girl) and The Babster (the baby girl). I gave it a break for a awhile beca...

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Well THAT Explains a Lot: New Study Reveals Fatherlessness C...

Findings released by the Research Institute of the McGill University Health Center in the journal Cerebral Cortex, have found a link between fatherles...

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New Study Says We Might Look Younger on the Outside, But We&...

I’m sure you’ve heard that black women are resilient and self-confident women that can hold it down even in the worst of circumstances. Yo...

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Kiss Worry Goodbye: The MUA Box Keeps Your Privacy Completel...

Pssst…Hey you! Yeah, you with the unmentionable objects kept in the draw with your other unmentionables. Have you ever wondered how you can conc...

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Why Are Sisters at the Ivy Leagues Still Caught Up in the Ma...

It’s the ultimate irony when a black woman feels empowered to reach the highest echelons of academia yet feels so powerless when it comes to dat...

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New Interracial Romance, “Unsettled” Released To...

Unsettled by S.C. Ellington Hosted by: Bare Naked Words Release Day 10th December After a horrific breakup with her long time boyfriend, Brooklyn Cald...

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Ever Feel Like an Imposter in the Board Room? Seven Ways to ...

Feeling like an imposter is common when you’ve scratched yourself out of the trenches of the hood to achieve education and professional success....

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Monday is Punday #15...

Monday-Punday #15 SirLoin knows that: A bather whose clothing was strewed, By winds that left her quite nude, Saw a man come along, And unless we are ...

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Holiday Find: “Joy to the Girls” Shadow Palette ...

  The holidays are upon us and make up companies are tripping all over themselves trying to get our money because let’s face it–we ALL wa...

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Weekend Read: Book Recommends Black Women Take Notes From As...

Before you read another word, this entry is ONLY for BB&W readers who can maintain an open mind and keep their defensiveness in check. If this ent...

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