On Men Popping the Quesion: Which Race Gets it Right (Or At ...

‘Tis the season for proposals, is it not? How many of you ladies are on the edge of your seat, waiting with baited breath for your guy to make it official so you can flash that bling under the nose of your envious co-workers? Well, depending on the race and culture of your rainbeau, you…

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QOTW: One Viewer Asks, “Why Do Black Men Seem to Flock...

  Here’s my not-so-politically correct answer....

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BB&W Writer Goes Full Throttle Matchmaker Mode…...

After kicking the idea around for a while, I’m excited to finally pursue utilizing a matchmaker! While I don’t mind being single, the idea of a ro...

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Stuff I Bet You Don’t Know that You SHOULD Know Before...

Matthew Hussey is about the most brilliant (and gorgeous) relationships coach I’ve ever met, and I’m not just saying that because he’...

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Hilarious Video Pokes Fun of Common Questions White Guys Ask...

How many of you guys can identify with any or all of this?...

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Tis the Season to Give: The Naughty or Nice Adult Toy Giveaw...

Baby, it’s cold outside, so what’s a girl to do to keep warm!? Well, as with anything else, you’ve got options, baby. You could alwa...

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“Black Nativity” Gives Strong Message: Boys need...

By M. Hunter “Black Nativity” starring Forest Whitaker, Angela Bassett and Jennifer Hudson, is a contemporary adaptation of the play by famed auth...

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New Study States, “There’s No Such Thing As Heal...

A new study released today asserts that “healthy obesity” is an oxymoron. A new report published in the Annuals of Internal Medicine from ...

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Should Black Women Get Cosmetic Surgery? One Woman’s S...

Black women are supposed to love their bodies, right? Big or small, we are supposed to be the one group of women who understands that we’re beau...

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Holiday Off Topic Thread...

  Holiday Off Topic Thread Talk about whatever you like...

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RANT: Want Us to Stop ‘Fat Shaming?’ Then STOP W...

Reading the headlines (aka my Facebook timeline) and lo and behold, yet another woman is being ‘skinny shamed’ by the ‘fat shaming&#...

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BB&W Intern Elizabeth’s 25 Life Lessons...

I celebrated my 25th birthday recently.  It was somewhat anticlimatic.  The height of my excitement in reaching 25 was that I could finally rent a c...

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Mommy Makeover...

Mothers work so hard on their jobs and taking care of their children, they loose time for themselves. Check out this quick and easy Mommy Makeover. It...

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Monday-Punday #14...

Monday-Punday #14   SirLoin observed, while raking leaves, that a Scottish neighbor–outfitted in kilts and a bagpipe–was blowing the ...

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Instant Tummy Tuck So You Can Fit Into That Clingy Holiday D...

*This is an unpaid review.* Now that you’re ready to hurl yourself out of a window because, like me, you consume 35,000 calories on Thanksgiving...

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Rest in Peace, Paul Walker...

I was stunned Saturday evening to learn of the death of actor (and BB&W favorite), Paul Walker, in a car accident. While he is most famous for his...

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White Guy Asks, “How Do I Protect Black Women from DBR...

I just got this letter and wanted to publish it immediately. I am pleased to see that the conversations that take place on this site about the lack of...

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Weekend Read: “Letters to My Mixed Race Son”...

We talk a lot here about the importance of boys to have fathers. When I heard that my facebook friend, Frank Robinson (who is a white man married to a...

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The Dumbest Reasons Offered For Why Black Women Should Stay ...

I have been actively working on being a smaller weight for about a year or so (inactively for a few years before that. I observed that my initial weig...

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Giving Thanks on Thanksgiving Day...

I would like to take a moment away from cooking the big meal...

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BB&W’s First Annual “Sexiest Woman of the Year” No...

Some of us at BB&W got so caught up in our fun (and yes, we are having LOTS of fun), that we left you fellas out in the cold. So to coincide with ...

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What Just Happened to Maria Kang is the Reason I Quit Talkin...

Infamously known as the mommy of three who had the nerve to ask America, “What’s your excuse?” offended enough fat-acceptance folks ...

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BB&W’s First Annual “Sexiest Man of the Yea...

I got inspired to do this post because of the Adam Levine “Sexiest Man” travesty. Someone in the comments section said that we could do a ...

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13 Years Since I Cried in a Room…Back Where My “Gues...

For those swirled up couples about to meet the parents, Tuesday night starts the final countdown. Some of you are feeling like you might do something ...

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What the Cuss?! Another Girl Threatened With Expulsion Over ...

Geezus, have perms and presses become so pervasive that folks are surprised that black people’s hair grows from it’s roots kinky and curly...

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Would You Date a Smoker If He Looked Like This Guy?...

Every time I see this guy on commercials, I think about how guys like the Marlboro Man just seem sexier to me. Until they breathe on me. I’m on ...

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Video: Kola Boof Speaks Her Truth About “Black Conscio...

Worth the view, I promise. She addresses the treatment of dark-skinned black women by the black community, and explains why she married a white, Jewis...

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Adam Levine “Sexiest Man Alive”…Really?!...

By Pella, BB&W Intern So the rumors are true Mr. Adam Levine was granted the coveted title of People’s Sexiest Man Alive, one which has been gra...

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NOT AGAIN!! Another White Guy with a Black Girlfriend is Kil...

The details are sketchy, but it looks like some 20-year-old miscreant shot and killed a white guy with a black girlfriend. We don’t yet know the...

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Monday Punday 13...

Monday-Punday #13 SirLoin knows that a good pun is its own reword. 453 Two boll weevils grew up in South Carolina; one went to Hollywood and became a ...

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