Dating Scarcity Perspective Leaves You Vulnerable; Only 3 &#...
Last week I was directed to an informal study by Best Black Dating Sites that caused a mini uproar, but thanks to the mainstream black media’s persistent silence in reporting ANYTHING that make black men look bad, it has been relatively contained. The news was that there are only 3 “good” black men for every…
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Open Thread: The sexy men of BB&W...
The incomparable Trinigirl1 has done it again. You posted them and she set it all to music. Ladies……. and gents please enjoy this montage ...
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Are You Brave Enough to ‘Cut Bait’ In Order to M...
A friend of mine recently shared with me her dissatisfaction with a man whom she’s been seeing. Early in the relationship, he came on strong, fu...
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The Travel Bug and Why I’m Okay With Being “Too ...
Anyone else here tired of being told that the reason they’re still single is that they’re too picky? Yeah, I thought so. I’ve been hearing this ...
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Why Is Ben Affleck Scared for the Public to Know His Ancesto...
The Sony leaks are the embarrassing gift that keeps on giving. The most recent what-the-cuss was news that actor Ben Affleck lobbied to have the show,...
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Product Pick for Defined and Moisture-Rich Curls...
I just picked up Ouidad’s Whipped Curls Daily Conditioner and Styling Primer on a whim, because I’ve noticed recently that several hair ma...
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Epic Responses to Dumb A** Video Claiming Black Women are Mo...
I got a slew of messages about this video… (First thing, all these couples should go to You Tube because their images are being used, more than ...
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Open Thread: Parenting the biracial child....
I read this exchange on the Recent Incident in Maine a Sober Reminder That Interracial Couples are Still a Target article and thought it important eno...
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Continued Victory…Our Voice is Being Heard Worldwide!...
Got this letter from a man in Quebec. It’s amazing how our platform is reaching so far and wide…and we’re virtually the counter bala...
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In the Garden: Purple Cabbage and Coleslaw!...
I know you pass it in the produce section, and you probably think it’s pretty, and with that deep purple, it’s probably got all kinds of a...
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QOTW: Texting Vs. Face to Face Contact…Which is Better...
Got this note from a real cutie…I’m going to put his photo up here. Poor Bambi tho…deer looking like, “Why?! WHYYYYY??????...
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BB&W Family, I Need Your Help. This Man is Attacking My...
BB&W family, I really need your help. There is a sorry-excuse for a man name Sergeant Willy Pete who makes regular videos criticizing me, which is...
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Reader Responds to “What Black Men Think of Natural Ha...
Yesterday I got the best letter. It was from Kelvin Bulluck, a photographer in the Baltimore area. Hello Christelyn, I recently came across your post...
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QOTW: IR Dating Black Woman Hates Seeing Black Men Do It Too...
The question: I just recently signed up for your email subscription. I get so excited when an email pops up from you. I enjoy reading the questions an...
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Orange (Makeup) Is the New Black: Quick Skin Prep, Tutorial ...
I absolutely love spring! It’s time to break out the flirty and feminine dresses, and get colorful with the makeup. The theme for today is orang...
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New Study Suggests Professional Black Women “Marry Dow...
It’s well known that most black women are taught by their parents to get through school, don’t get pregnant, and don’t worry about g...
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Azealia Banks’ New Boo is HAAAWWWRRRRTTT!!!...
Say what you want about her mouth, but Azealia Banks is aesthetically cute as a button, and boy, can she pull ’em. Check out her rumored new boo...
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Aaron Hernandez Gets Life, and What a Freaking Fail....
As I read the accounts of today’s conviction of Aaron Hernandez, former New England Patriots tight end-come newly appointed felon, I can’t...
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Is He Lying To You? Former CIA Agent Teaches You How to R...
We talk a lot about vetting potential mates, so that we make the best choices for our partners. But let’s face it..there’s a lot of men ou...
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Recent Incident in Maine a Sober Reminder That Interracial C...
An event occurred earlier this month that garnered national news. On a lovely spring day in Portland, Maine, an interracially married couple wanted to...
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Vegas Update...
We just got our 11th room booked for our event! 16 total people going! Just a reminder that final package payments are due in about a month. For tho...
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QOTW: Are There Any Subjects Off Limits On An Interracial Da...
The question… Hi Christelyn, I’ve been lurking on your site and your Youtube channel for a couple of weeks now (I know, shame on me lol).�...
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Reader Reaction: Latest Post Inspires Her to Give Up the ...
Got this note over the weekend from a longtime fan of BB&W in response to the story we did about my black “friend” expressing his dist...
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Open Thread: Latin men 24/7...
We keep our promises here at Beyond Black and White so you ladies booed up …..or want to be…. with Latin men here ya go. Now I must...
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Gardening for Juicing: Best Produce To Cultivate This Season...
At last, the long cold winter in the East is giving up the ghost, so you folks over yonder have absolutely no excuse not to take notes! Me? I’ve...
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What Black Men Think of Natural Hair : “The Ish Don...
Despite what many people think, I have a few friends who are black men. Most of them are successful and married to white women (haha it’s the tr...
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Toni and Jay – Patience, Love and Respect...
Toni, 53, describes Jay, 49, as “laid back, kind, not afraid trying new things and has a great work ethic. He’s much more conservative than I am. ...
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Why Every Woman Should Have Her Own Signature Fragrance...
Nothing says “I’m a feminine woman” like wearing a good perfume. The best fragrances work with your own body chemistry to give off j...
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Open Thread: White guys and why we dig them....
Things have been a tad heavy in these parts so I am hankering for a change and a bit of fun. Translation: I am about sick of talking about black guys ...
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My Journey to Embracing the Minivan...
This is a sponsored post on behalf of Cars.com I went for a car wash today in one of those drive-through deals where if feels like your car is still m...
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