Wake Up, Black Women! IRR “Permission” Is Never ...

  By Toni First of all, HEEEEY! I have been gone for awhile, I know. I wish I could write more of these articles, but I have been super busy. Some of you know why that is, but if you don’t, I am making preparations to travel abroad next year. I expect to touch down…

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People Magazine Shows Racial Shade During Shonda Rhimes Big ...

by Tracy Renee Jones   Okay folks, there needs to be a racial insensitivity line drawn in the sand! People magazine threw shade during the festiv...

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IRR Romance: Tempted by Samara King...

 Update:  We are truly fortunate to offer the following message from the author of this week’s read Tempted.  Writing with a Colorless Pen ...

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Best Ever Engagement Video from BB&W Fans, Jacob and Jo...

by Christelyn Karazin  Before I show the video, note that this couple met ONLINE on Plenty of Fish. Again; sort through the frogs and find your princ...

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social media,online hate, bullying, racism, married couples, blended families, Twitter, femininity, respect, culture, entertainment, online hate, mixed marriage, trolls, hatred, bullying, celebrity, interracial marriage, black men,

The Nation of Social Media Hate Comes for Omari HardwickR...

by Tracy Renee Jones For those of you who judge human’s based on character and not skin color, I applaud you. I also need you to realize that th...

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Leona’s Love Quest: Is Your Attachment Style Hindering...

Attached.  I’ve become slightly obsessed with the song “Latch” by Disclosure featuring Sam Smith .  OK, maybe seriously obsessed. I listening ...

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TBT: Good Times……….Art, Music, Willona and...

by Tracy Renee Jones There wasn’t much in terms of television that caught my attention as a child. I wasn’t allowed to sit in front of the...

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Video: Black Women, Capitalize On Your Unique Assets!...

by Christelyn Karazin Ladies, it’s time you stop looking at your shade as a liability. Every group of women has their own unique “brand of...

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Black Man Admits Hood Dudes Corrupt Black Women’s Womb...

by Christelyn Karazin Sometimes my You Tube channel is riddled with trolls, but sometimes a few nuggets of teachable moments come through to exemplify...

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Another Online Dating Success! Yes; They Met on AfroRomance....

I’ve been telling you guys about my friend, Silue, a first generation Chinese American man who has a preference for black women. He’s had ...

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BB&W Continues to Touch the Lives of Black Women Across...

It’s not always easy to keep the lights on in this joint, but when I get notes like I received over the weekend, I know that no matter what, we ...

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Yes; Daniele Watts Should Apologize for Crying Wolf....

When I heard the initial reports of Daniele Watts and her boyfriend, Brian had broadcast about alleged police targeting of an interracial couple, I li...

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5 Great Foods For Gorgeous Skin...

    Face it, the clock does not move counterclockwise and we want to do everything possible to maintain a youthful and fresh appearance....

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IRR Romance: Nichelle Gregory’s “Soul Sweet̶...

     I’ve been asked why I write multicultural romance more than once and for a longest time I struggled when giving my answer. I was concerned a...

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Shonda Rhimes Hands NY Times WW Writer Her Hindquarters on S...

You’d think one of the writers of the illustrious New York Times would cross-check her information before she threw major shade on Shonda Rhim...

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Want Strong Hair and Great Skin? Antioxidant-Rich Citrus Smo...

I’ve been using Neocell’s Beauty Infusion powdered collagen and loving the results. To see previous posts on Neocell, click here. The comp...

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Three Cultures One Couple – Anou and Siobhan...

Siobhan and Anou Photo Credits: Rachel May Photography   Siobhan is a beautiful woman of Ghanaian and Irish heritage who met and fell in love wit...

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Friday, Friday, FRIDAY! Join Us For the Google+ Hangouts Dis...

What are you doing tomorrow night? Do you have a date? No? Well now you do. Join me, You Tubers Shelly and Michael and Sherley and Clove of the legend...

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TBT: Brown Girls Rocking Beads on Braids...

I’m sorry, White folks land wants to claim each and every awesome thing about Blackness and turn it into a consumable item attributed to THEIR b...

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Why are Some Folks Defending Child Abuse as ‘Black Cul...

By Zac OnBothSides That thing you’re doing, where you defend child abuse along cultural lines, please stop it.  Adrian Petersons’ actions are not...

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Kerry Washington Collaborates With The Limited For Scandal C...

    As if we needed another reason to adore the drop-dead-gorgeous Kerry Washington, “Gladiators,” everywhere are beyond elate...

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SirLoin’s Babe Wenesday: Ab-solutly....

OK.  This week I am just going to keep quiet, sit over here in the corner and watch you guys drool.  Sort of like how you do at the gym when you see...

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QOTW: “Should I Worry If the White Guy Macking On Me H...

Got this note from a friend and fan of BB&W…  “What do you think of it when white guys pursue Black women but don’t have ANY BL...

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OMG…Have You Heard of Jane Iredale Cosmetics?!...

If you look around this joint for two seconds, you’ll know how much I love purple. Like…LOVE purple. I love to look at it, but it doesn...

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Video Discussion: How to Tell if He/She is Into You...

Last Friday I had my buddy, Niki McElry, author of The Black Girls’s Guide to Dating White Men and relationships coach with a podcast called, &#...

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Opinion: On Defending Danielle Watts...

Let me just start by saying I’ll make no attempt to avoid projecting my own values and sensibilities into this piece.  I’ve been thinking a great...

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MAN CANDY MONDAY: 50 Shades of Bae’...

When I tell you that I’m all about sexy guys and making real life love connections I need you to know I’m so sincere! If I wasn’t I ...

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Update on Danielle Watts: BB&W Exclusive Interview with...

Tonight I had the opportunity to speak with Danielle Watts’ boyfriend regarding the incident that transpired that resulted in Danielle being han...

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New York Fashion Week Favorites!...

September in New York is an exciting time! New York Fashion Week gathers designers from around the globe to display their collections for the Spri...

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First Photos of Keke Palmer Playing Cinderella on Broadway!...

First, it was Tiana in Disney’s Princess and the Frog. Now, it’s Keke Palmer in Cinderella. Yes ladies, I think there’s a message be...

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