Asian Man/Black Woman Preview: Helena and Naveen...

Meet Naveen and Helena, an interracial couple living in Ohio. Naveen is from South India and Helena is African American. They were married in 2015. This was one of my favorite interviews in the “Pros and Cons of Dating Asian Men” series. The interview lasted for over an hour, but here’s a little snippet. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hPQDqzQmPhY…

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Jan. ONLY: Contribute to BB&W or “Swirl Around th...

It’s a new year, and I know a lot of you are determined to find the man or woman of your dreams. I know, because you all are all up in my inbox ...

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A Botched Attempt at Leaving Blackistan, and Other Self Sabo...

We’re having some really good discussions over on You Tube, and didn’t want you guys to miss it. We’re having some pretty in depth c...

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Ladies, Buckle Up…Nerds are the New Alpha Male...

For millennia, the tall, musclebound man with the square jaw and proclivity to spread his seed all over creation may soon be coming to an end before h...

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Five Tips to Ensure You Can Have Peace of Mind During Your N...

When you go on vacation, it is important to properly prepare in order to have as much peace of mind as you can while you are away. Taking the time to ...

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Too Late? 39…Four Kids…Now Wants to Give Interra...

Sigh. This is what I want black women to avoid. Out of wedlock children DOES lower your market value in the dating world, and there’s no way aro...

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Peter Thomas’ Daughter Claps Back at Haters Claiming H...

If you, like me, had to look up who the heck Peter Thomas was, then we know that you too abhor reality television. Apparently he’s the star on R...

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Beyond Black & White Announces More Minority Men Repres...

We’ve had our resident “token” Asian guy, Law Wanxi, for years now, and you know how much I love you. But…you’ve kind of...

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Yay! Janet Jackson Gives Birth to a Boy!!!!...

Black women are ALL THE WAY WINNING at the beginning of 2017! This according to People Magazine: It’s a boy! Janet Jackson and husband Wissam Al Man...

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QOTW: “Can You Help White Men Ask More Black Women Out...

The note: Hi Christelyn, I was wondering if you could do a video to help get more white men to ask black women out? You see, unlike black men and whit...

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7 Qualities Gardeners Have that Make Them Marriage Material...

Hobbies can tell a lot about a person. For example, men who skydive, street race, or snow board might be adrenaline junkies. Coin collectors might be ...

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Wow Another One! Condola Rashad Just Got Engaged...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wsNVrid4QCk Tony-nominated actress Condola Rashad and daughter of Phylicia Rhashad is getting hitched to fellow actor,...

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Serena Williams Engaged to Reddit Co-Founder, Alex Ohanian!...

YAASSS! Amongst all the sad celebrity death news, here’s some good stuff–Serena Williams is getting hitched to Reddit co-founder, Alex Oha...

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More Black Women Need to Practice “Free Agent” D...

You can say whatever you want about Jennifer Lopez (JLo) and her parade of male companions, but one thing is for certain: she’s a free agent whe...

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The Unsettling Reason Why This State Farm Photo Got So Much ...

The internet was all abuzz at the extreme backlash from keyboard hooligans after State Farm released this photo with the caption, “Who said yes?...

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Trini Girl’s Holiday Slideshow!...

Merry Christmas, everyone!! Our Love Is Here To Stay from Artisan Photographics on Vimeo....

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Check This Doozy of a QOTW. How Many Times Have We Heard Thi...

Normally I give my thoughts about a Question of the Week immediately after I post it. Not this time. This woman’s story is so typical and tragic...

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Check Out My New Series, “Black People On YouTube Be L...

If you’re not yet a subscriber to my YouTube channel at this point, I just don’t know what to say to your anymore. Maybe we need to reeval...

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Why Black Women (Especially) Need to Avoid Parabens...

I know how it is. You’re at the drug store, and you need to pick up some lipstick, lotion, and conditioning cream for your hair. You’re on...

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5 Beauty Hacks for the Holidays...

Have you ever wanted to learn how to cut your crease like the instagram models, wear that bright red lipstick you’ve been itching to wear, or ba...

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Washington Post: “I Feel Guilty for Being a Black Wome...

The Washington Post recently ran an essay by a black woman who wrote about her internal struggle with guilt about dating interracially. Like with most...

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Rob Kardashian Gets Left by Blac Chyna Days Before Baby Drea...

Lawd…the drama continues with this train wreck of a family. It appears that Blac Chyna has absconded with Rob Kardashian’s baby Grinch sty...

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They’re FINALLY Here! “Swirling” T-Shirts!...

Honestly I don’t know why it took me this long to get this going; chalk it up to eh…I dunno. But! Here they are, the t-shirts you’ve...

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Climb Those Walls! Toby Macguire Seen Kissing a Sista...

I love this little bit of cheeky news, because I’ve always like Toby Maguire–he has that nerdy/sexy thing happening. Sorry about his recen...

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Zoe Saldana Plays the Lead Romantic Interest of Ben Affleck ...

Ben Affleck and Zoe Saldana star in a movie called “Live By Night,” set to premiere January 14. Zoe Saldana is Afro Latina and Ben Affleck...

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Chinese Men are Snatching Up Ugandan Women, and the Men Aren...

Interracial dating and interracial marriage is increasing internationally. The government of Uganda is becoming increasingly concerned that Chinese me...

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Bonus QOTW: College Man Afraid of Physical Intimacy. What Sh...

Hello, Christelyn- Let me start by telling you how much I love your videos. You put a fresh spin on interracial relationships with realistic advice th...

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QOTW: “Did I Give Too Much, Too Soon?”...

Recently I got a question from a young lady who was very distraught about how to proceed in a “friends with benefits” situation she as hav...

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Christelyn’s Big Announcement! Swirling Around the Wor...

This has been a secret I’ve had a really hard time keeping and am really glad I don’t have to anymore! Remember all those conversations yo...

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A Letter from a Black Man: “You are NOT obligated to s...

Sometimes I get notes that are just so profound and timely that I just have to share. With all the railing against the segment of hateful black men wh...

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