No More “Mr. Wrong” for Mary J. Blige...
Written by Nicole J. Legendary singer Mary J. Blige has recently taken on a “No Kendu” attitude (get it?!) when it comes to dating men who make less than her. Her relationship with ex-husband Martin “Kendu” Isaacs ended in divorce, which cost her $30,000 per month in temporary spousal support, millions in debt, and the…
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So…I Went to the Intercontinental Barclay and…...
Ah, New York. The sights, the sounds, the hotels. You literally have too many choices to stay, so I’m going to try and make it easy for you. Two wor...
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Thirty Years of Love and Family in Canada…An Interracial M...
Beyond Black and White Interview Spotlight: Jasmine and Lorne This is an interview with Jasmine, who shares about her 30 year interracial marriage in ...
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Where to Meet Men in Uniform...
Written by Nicole J. Valentine’s Day is over, and if you’ve found yourself without an arrow from that baby cherub, why not shoot your shot on your...
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The HGTV Standard: Observations From An Evening of Reality T...
I love House Hunters and Log Cabin Living. I like watching people walk through homes and point out what suits them and what doesn’t. I’m also ...
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Redefining Valentine’s Day with Loved Ones...
Redefining Valentine’s Day with Loved Ones Written by Saran Lawson Valentine’s Day is around the corner. All over the United States, ther...
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Healthy Nail Care Is Self-Care! ??...
Ah, the nail salon. For some it’s a (bi)weekly ritual that is a two-fold source of a confidence boost and self-care/relaxation necessity. I was one ...
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Places to Meet That Nerdy Guy This Valentine’s Day...
Written by Nicole J. So it’s pretty much a couple hours until Valentine’s Day: the greeting cards are out in full force, the candy aisle has been ...
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Breaking Up is Hard To Do: Ending Unofficial Relationships...
Breaking Up is Hard To Do: Ending Unofficial Relationships Written by Saran Lawson Ending a relationship is one of the hardest things you have to do. ...
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When The Stars Go Blue: How Your Taste In Music Affected You...
The other night, I was lying in bed listening to “When The Stars Go Blue” by Tim McGraw. It’s one of my favorite songs even though I don’t usu...
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The best essence for you in 2019...
Which Is the Best Essence for You In 2019 Lovers of skin care, get in here!! You need to make a conscious beauty decision in the New Year to be the be...
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Candace Owens is One of Many Conservative Black Women Who Sw...
Controversial political influencer, Candace Owens just announced that she is engaged to Brexit advocate and Englishman, George Farmer. Between “...
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Online Dating Profile Examples to Attract Men...
Online Dating Profile Examples to Attract Men If you are looking to change your game with our online dating profile examples to attract men, you are i...
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2020 Presidential Candidate Kamala Harris: Is there a legiti...
Almost as soon as Senator Harris announced her candidacy, scores of black people found reasons not to even consider supporting her. Critiques started ...
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Why I say no to coffee dates...
After escaping a tedious 12 year relationship (don’t ask!), I have been thrust into the world of online dating…and so far, it has been a huge disa...
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Dylan & Kimberly: A Love Story Decades in the Making...
Dylan and Kimberly met when one of them was married. Both were in law school two decades ago and Dylan was married with kids. Upstanding man that he w...
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Black Women, Your Pain Only Matters When a White Man Hurts Y...
“No! Stop! Help Me! Please Help Me!” Those were the words I heard when viewing a video in which someone conducted a Facebook Live of a woma...
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Erykah Badu and Da Brat Won’t Be Muting R Kelly...
Erykah Badu and Da Brat Won’t Be Muting R Kelly Written by Saran Lawson Two more artists speak on their thoughts on the docuseries recent...
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Beware of the “Baby Powder Dusty” and the Rise o...
Normally I delete dumb, grammatically-challenged comments, but some are just too stunning to ignore. This is one such post: And if that wasn...
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I Don’t Believe You: Why I Can’t Hear Celebrity Commenta...
By now, we’ve all either seen or heard the fine points of the R. Kelly documentary, “Surviving R. Kelly.” To recap, a whole list of women who me...
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A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words: Increasing Your Matches...
Written by Saran Lawson Every New Year there are goals that we set out for ourselves. Some goals are unrealistic to achieve in a shorter time span. Ot...
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Snag Your Spot–The Purple Pill Inaugural Event is Tomo...
You’ve heard rumors and rumblings about the upcoming Purple Pill, a play off of Kendall St. Charle’s Breukelen Bleu alias and my Pink Pill...
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Black Girl Survival: Thoughts on the R Kelly Docu-series...
Black Girl Survival: Thoughts on the R Kelly Docu-series Written by Saran Lawson If you have been anywhere near a television, radio or computer...
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Equipment-Free Exercises To Try in 2019...
Written by Nicole J. It’s January, meaning that we are at the height of “new year, new me” season. Getting in shape is chief among New Year Reso...
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The Essential Part of Your Makeup Routine You Might Be Negle...
Written by Nicole J. If you are a makeup wearer, and have been for any length of time, you probably have your routine down to a science: primer, found...
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Chance the Rapper: “I Didn’t Value [R Kelly] Acc...
Chance the Rapper sat down with Jamilah Lemieux (who appeared as a commentator on Surviving R. Kelly), and revealed a LOT about black men that we alre...
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What the Latest McDonald’s Beatdown Says About Black F...
Another day, another video going viral of a black girl or woman being beaten is what I thought at first when I viewed the latest footage of a deranged...
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New Year, New Me: Relationship Goals for the New Year...
New Year, New Me: Relationship Goals for the New Year written by Saran Lawson I know everyone has heard the yearly New Year slogan, New Year, New Me. ...
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The Interracial Element You Might Have Missed in “Bird...
The Netflix film, Bird Box is a definitive hit. Produced by Sandra Bullock, the sci-fi horror film where an unknown force compels people to commit sui...
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Last Chance to Get BB&W Courses for 40% Off in 2018!!...
THE ENTIRE BB&W SCHOOL ON SALE! There are just days until the end of the year. Do a quick post-mortem. What were your wins? What were your losses?...
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