Justin and Krystal – 18th Century Class and Elegance...
I found Krystal and Justin’s wedding on WedLuxe Magazine. I could not take my eyes off this classy couple and their Parisian and Versailles-themed wedding and reception. These beautiful photographs were done by Corina V. Photography. The venue at the Liberty Grand Entertainment Complex was perfect for the architect couple who met while studying architecture. The…
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Asset Maximizing: Black Women Have the ‘Ageless Advant...
As I sit in a bar in the resort in Cancun with The Hubster, I glance around the scene. Non-black women young and old are gathering around. We just fin...
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IRR Book Review: Nichelle Gregory’s “Soul Sweet”...
“Now that is how you write a good book”! My review of Nichelle Gregory’s “Soul Sweet” (By Yema Nelson) The key ingredients to a perfect book...
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Off to Cancun…...
Hey ya’ll! Right about now I’m sitting at LAX airport about to board a six hour-ish flight to Cancun with The Hubster. One of the perks of...
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AAWG: Wow her with your Whiteness by Savage Tango...
her with your Whiteness by Savage Tango So, another Halloween has come and gone and I’m hoping it went well for you guys. Did ya manage to lay t...
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On Vetting: When a Guy Expresses Doubts About Interracial Da...
The question: Hey guys I hope you guys can give me advice on this issue I’m having. I’ve been talking to this white guy I met online. He s...
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Mia Love Elected for Congress!...
She’s black, she’s republican, she’s Mormon and she can now add congresswoman to the list. Mia Love has made history by becoming...
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SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Madonna...
That’s right. Expect the unexpected when it comes to SirLoin and Babe Wednesday. Any guy crazy about his lady and looking forward to th...
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How the ‘Black Church’ Cheated this Woman Out of...
How Being Churchified And Church Going Limited My Dating Pool And Marriage Prospects. By Raina T. Shaw Also known as The Salon Chair “Therapist”. ...
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Honest Question: What Do Folks Expect Quality Black Women to...
By now you’ve heard that I’m coaching adorable radio and television personality, Jacque Reid. We announced the endeavor, coordinated with ...
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So…Street Harassment is Important Now That White Women...
Recently, a video documenting one woman being harassed on the street by various men in New York went viral and sparked numerous discussions on news ch...
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On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Holding Your Past Against Yo...
He says he doesn’t want any secrets between you. He says your past doesn’t matter…but he still just wants to know. Everything. The a...
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ANNOUNCEMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wanna test out the new Forum?...
We are still in the process but now is the time to test this baby out before we fully populate the forum with content. Sign in and register here: http...
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Buy It! Stream It! “My Last Day Without You” on ...
Folks round these parts are familiar with the film, My Last Day Without You, written by my friend, Chris Silber (boyfriend of the fabulous Misee Harri...
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I’m Beginning to Think that Many Black Folks are Conte...
I’m reeling because I just ended a relationship with a person whom I have respected for years, and whom I thought was an ally on behalf of No We...
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SHARE: Dating Outside of the States 2. Gems from the Thread...
There is so much great information that is being been shared by the readers in the comment section of Dani’s article SHARE: Dating Outside of th...
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IRR Romance: Loving You by Jan Irving...
Futuristic Interracial Romance I saw a poster for a martial arts school with this stunning man on it and fantasized about the kind of woman he ...
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Weekend Read: Excerpt from “Child Protection: A Novel ...
Title (tentative) “Child Protection: A Novel Of Deception” I actually started writing this book years ago, but lost what I’d ...
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SHARE: Dating Outside of the States...
Recently, some of our readers shared some very juicy gems about their interactions and dating experiences while traveling abroad. Most important to no...
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It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!...
I am beyond disgusted at how quality, high-value black women are left withering on the vine. I just got this letter today: I’ve just stumbled up...
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Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Bey...
We get a lot of criticism about our use of the term, “DBR,” a psychology/psychiatric term that was popularized by blogger, Evia Moore. It&...
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On Vetting: Dump Toxic People Who Prefer You to Sustain Unhe...
I ran across a news story about a woman who lost 150 pounds of extra weight who had to also end an engagement with a man who would rather see her morb...
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Is Pumpkin Pie for White People?...
I managed to wrangle a few pumpkins out of my raised beds this year…but just barely. Pumpkin, melons, cucumbers and squash are susceptible to a ...
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SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Body Art...
You think I am talking about ink. Nope. No tattoos here. Plenty of paint however. Since ancient times man has been adorning the human body in vari...
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Get X-Mas Money! Enter Our First BB&W “Happy Coup...
We’re on a mission to rebuild all the “Happy Couple” photos and stories we collected on our original Beyond Black & White fan pa...
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Neil’s Story: The Overseas Wedding that (Almost) Never...
Hello Christelyn , this is my journey to swirling. My name is Neil and for as long as I can remember I’ve always liked black women , growing up in n...
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My Strong Is Not Your Strong, My Swirl Is Not
I would like to reiterate a few things before I get started. They are things that are obvious to full-time participants in this lovely community, but ...
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Late Night Man Candy Monday: Welcome to Bollywood!!...
Hollywood is overrated, so I hear, it’s not like I’ve been there but what I do know is that there is a more festive and exciting place tha...
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IRR Romance: Heart to Heart by Ife Oshun...
Coming November 3 Heart To Heart by Ife Oshun Paranormal romance Heart To Heart is Book Two in the Angelica Brown series, and the sequel ...
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Leona’s Love Quest: The ABC’s of Finding Love ...
By the time you read this it will be just about two months since I returned from Matthew Hussey’s High Value Woman Lifestyle Retreat. I wish I was s...
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