Open Thread: What Red Flags Have YOU Ignored that Could Help...

Let’s be honest we’ve all made some major boo-boos in our lives when it comes to relationships. Some of them are so horrendous we shudder to think of them. But mistakes allow for us to grow, but more importantly they give others an opportunity to learn. Last week, a YouTube video I posted about a…

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Throw Your Support Behind Issa Rae’s “Insecure&#...

I’m so proud of Issa Rae. I remember when I discovered her web series, Awkward Black Girl and knew I had to meet her so we could feature her in ...

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QOTW: “Is He Doing THIS Because I’m Black?”...

The Question (This one is a VERY teachable moment. Buckle up.) Hello! I’m a huge fan and have been following your site, and you in general for a...

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Time for Black Women to Fight Back Against Online Bullying!...

For any of you online for any amount of time and happen to fall into the rancid rabbit hole of black women hate videos from the He-Man Black Woman Hat...

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Michelle is About to Spill All the Tea on Dr. Dre and Suge K...

R&B singer Michel’le has a story to tell in the forthcoming Lifetime biopic Surviving Compton: Dre, Suge & Me, and I’ll make i...

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Another BB&W Success!...

Got this letter today… Christelyn, Thank you so much for your bravery to do the right thing, and bring attention to help so many women and men t...

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QOTW: “My Black Wife Has Daddy Issues!”...

The question… Hi Christelyn, I came across your YouTube after watching someone else YouTube channel where they mentioned your vids, do I decided...

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Relationship Red Flags…Avoid “Love Bombing”...

Yesterday, during a private coaching session with a fan who is having some serious relationship issues, I realized she made a major mistake when she c...

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Swirlers Here to Stay: “Absolute Rise” in Interr...

A recent article reflects what we here at Beyond Black & White already knew–there is an “absolute rise” in interracial marriages...

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Black Women, Choose Carefully What Hill You’re Willing...

I just received an email notification from Change.org regarding (now) notorious Django Unchained actress, Danielle Watts and her recent activism on th...

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Cool New Discovery from This Summer’s Garden!...

Every year serious gardeners have one or two plants that historically haven’t done well, and, not willing to call it a failure, they replant the...

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10 New Drugstore Beauty Products Worth Getting!...

Drugstore Beauty Products There has been so really great new products this year in terms of drugstore beauty products! Since I’ve always gotten ...

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Sometime You Just Gotta Cry: #BlackGirlTears Event with Breu...

Let’s face it. The world reacts a lot differently when one type of does this… And when another looks like this… Don’t believe ...

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A Note About Fake Friends and Fake Allies...

I’m going to be writing this post in general terms, because the people interested in what went down already know the story, so I’ll not po...

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Nate Parker, Shonda Rhimes and the Hypocrisy of “We Mu...

  People have been asking for my opinion about Nate Parker, and the revelation that he was involved in the date rape of a women –who subseq...

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NBABM Woman Having Second Thoughts. Time to Be a Sisterhood....

I got a VERY moving letter from an observer of this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EpaYunY3fNY Good evening! I came across your channel and co...

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QOTW: Guy Worries His Black Girlfriend Will Judge His Trump-...

The Question:  I have been seeing my girlfriend for about 3 months now. She has yet to meet my family, but she is supposed to go to brunch with me to...

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The Circuitous, Serendipitous Way One MGTOW Man Found Me, an...

I have to admit, most information and exposure I’ve had to MGTOW men (Men Going Their Own Way) has been utterly frightening, and downright repul...

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Trump: “Black People, What Do You Have to Lose?”...

As usual, Donald Trump never fails to disappoint our expectations of what comes out of his mouth. Last week he wanted to round up all the Mexicans and...

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Look of the Week: Soft Mauves and Browns...

I absolutely love this look, because it’s soft, feminine and sexy. The lip color and liner I use looks absolutely sex kittenish. I used this loo...

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QOTW: Do Rainbeaus Have to Listen to Rap to Attract Black Wo...

The Question: Hey Chris, I was just thinking about this, since I see you were doing a video about dating once again, and it got me thinking. Yes, I st...

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20 Cruelty-Free Beauty Brands That You Must Try!...

Cruelty-Free Beauty Brands Cruelty free and vegan brands are becoming more and more popular as the years has gone by! If you don’t know what cr...

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Lesbianism as an Option for Black Women Who Can’t Find...

When I heard about it, I almost couldn’t believe it. But…to be honest, I did. The idea that interracial dating is such a repugnant option ...

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Angela Bassett Just Turned 58. What’s YOUR Excuse?...

Hell…I for one, don’t have one. If this woman, a member of AARP, can look like this at 58, I can’t really build an reasonable defens...

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No More Excuses! Last Day to Get 40% Yoga Download!...

Yoga can literally change your life. It can lower your blood pressure and your body weight…the world’s most perfect exercise. I’ve s...

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That Awkward Moment When You’ve Been Confused for the ...

The Question of DOOM! On a sunny spring day, I take my baby for a stroll.  It’s a really nice day.  Perfect, really.  Blue sky, fluffy clouds, no...

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Anti-IR White You Tuber Admits to Dissing Black Women for Vi...

This passed weekend, I had a live Google hangout with a 28 year-old You Tuber with a channel called “The VeGAINator.” In addition to being...

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Look of the Week: Wide Band Updo with Popping Lips!...

Lately I’ve been oscillating between wearing my hair out and putting it up so I won’t be so tempted to manipulate it too much. I like to p...

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How Many Ways Are We Loving the #BlackGirlMagic at the Olymp...

Wow. Seeing all the black girl excellence at the Rio Olympics has us hyped here on BB&W. Let’s count them, shall we? Thursday night, Simone ...

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Ugly Rapper Turd Kodak Black Doesn’t Want Dark Girls. ...

Kodak Black. Never heard of this rapper turd, but he reminds me of Buckwheat from The Little Rascals. So…I’m just gonna call him that. Buc...

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